4/29 update: Focusing on a new triad and not open to new lovers. Happy spring!

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Rare are men who make being a Lover their Art. Heartbreakingly, most women don't seem to even want to learn men. It's time to connect with a fellow artisan for (hopefully) long term loveliness. I hope to know my lovers for the rest of time so seek deeper heart+body+mind connections.

I'm an arty gal (paint, photo, write, sew, costume), been married 13 years and my life is -just- the way I'd like it. An open (polyfidelity) relationship suits our life very well. Super supportive, splendid spouse isn't seeing others at present. I've plenty of weekday time free and less in the way of evenings and weekends.

5'4" 116lbs, 37-27-37, easy on the eyes (obscure photos by spouse request~ it's a small bay area), socially adept, vivacious, escaped any STDs (thank you, condoms+luck!). I'm perfume-free, not into alterants, too smart and too curious for my own (and possibly your) good.

I like folks experienced in loving more than one (Poly), flat-ish bellies, not super hairy bodies, and mustaches can look great but can=fewer kisses. Skipping cologne and using unscented products vastly improves the chances i'll wish to smell you up close. Not as interested in: std's, condom-phobics, short-term hookups or long distance. Imagine that! (wink)

Clearly we both have to be feeling it, so send email and we'll swap thoughts and pics?

gardening, oil paint/photography, fixing up lovely house w/perfect light, making delicious food, deep conversation, motorcycling, connecting with friends...

seeing, communication, generally competent type...

energy/spirit, style of dress (costumer/chameleon),
hair color.

books/movies: yes yes yes.
food: garden grown, vegetarian since birth, fresh, delicious.
music: tango, punk, post-punk gloomy english (mostly) dance music, new wave, bluegrass, ragtime, indian, 'classical', country, folk, rock, blues.... almost everything so far just no chinese opera.

certainly do not wish to do without: food, air, art, sex, health....
(transportation, refrigeration, hot water, vacuum cleaners....)

art, sex, food, how stuff works, how people tick, what would be fun

i prioritize connecting / conversing so hopefully in a comfy place spending quality time with someone lovely

open book... ask what you want to know.

~a couple quotes i like:

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~Anais Nin

Art is the most intense mode of individualism that the world has known. ~ Oscar Wilde

Good things happen to those who hustle. ~Anais Nin

Love is the ultimate outlaw. It just won't adhere to any rules. The most any of us can do is sign on as its accomplice. ~Tom Robbins

those who are easily shocked should be shocked more often ~ Mae West

you only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough. ~ Mae West

Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish it's source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings. ~Anais Nin

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I write back to all initial messages I receive (unless downright rude).

Message me if we talked and our conversation went astray. I've been interested in quite a few conversations that went POOF! before completing enough to set a date. I try to keep up but it has been a bit of a whirlwind :)