For those seeking casual / no-strings sex:
I'm here seeking more Family-vibe relationships. There is ZERO chance of loveless, commitmentless sex here. We adore commitments.
Rare are men who make being a partner and lover their Art. Heartbreakingly, most women don't seem to even want to learn men. It's time to connect with a fellow artisan for (hopefully) long term loveliness. I seek fabulous love affairs with heart+body+mind connections and a sense of family. (not much to ask, right? heh)
I'm an arty gal (paint, photo, write, sew, costume). Been with my splendid, super supportive spouse for 14 years. An open (poly fidelity, triad, quad) relationship suits our life very well and has been a part of my life since my first love at 19. Huge bonus if you're interested in sharing Life in a more primary-relationship way. Not being attracted to men is FINE but sharing Life with us to some degree would be super great if it flowed.
Y'don't have to hang out who i live with ~ it's just a bonus. Potential friends and opens up more time to hang out. I've plenty of weekDAY time free but usually only scraps of weekends or nights unless you wanna hang out with us. This can change over time but at the moment, unscheduled weekend and night time is pretty rare.
5'4" 120lbs, 38-28-38 is light but curvy, easy on the eyes, socially adept, vivacious, escaped STDs (thank you, condoms+luck!). I'm perfume-free (hachoo!), not into alterants, too smart and too curious for my own (and possibly your) good.
I like folks experienced in loving more than one (Poly / Open / non-mongamous), skipping cologne and using unscented products vastly improves the chances of me wishing to be close. Not Interested in: condom-phobics, short-term hookups or long distance. Imagine that! (wink)
The model a lotta poly folks seem to seek is sharing some romance and sex once a week. That can be a pretty small box for a Real Relationship. We'd love to be pal-ing around with other folks, sharing homes, raising gardens/kids/community, and generally enjoying a more communal life.
Clearly we have to be feeling it, so send email and we'll swap thoughts and pics?