It is important to note that I am very high matinence. Not materialisticly, but when it comes to attention. I like to know I am important to my special someone.
If you don't like kiddos I am NOT the girl for you. My kids are my priority, thier the reason I get up and do what I do every day. I DO NOT need a substitute baby daddy. They have a father, but even if they didn't I can take care of them myself. I just try encourage a good relationship between the two. I feel it is important for both a mother and father to be in the childs life. However I expect the man who chooses to be in our lives to want to be a great step dad. Because nothing is more precious than to actually have a child love and respect you because they choose too and not because they are born to.
That being said, Im sure I have turned off about 75% of the men who are going to read this, And as cocky as I might sound right now I am really not, I am very loving and giving, I try very hard to make my partner feel loved and important, I am so loyal and faithful. I can always be depended on and you wont have to ask me twice for something.
As independent as I am and although I dont think Ill ever survive without a job and/or depending on someone else, I do believe in old fashioned values that a man in the bread winner and the woman is the home maker. My grandparents were married 63 years and although my grandma worked her whole life the responsibilty of providing for the home fell on my grandpa, and taking care of the home fell on my grandma. I think that is how life should ideally be. I think that is how relationships last. Because the team is playin their roles appropriatly.
I am a chunky girl, so if that bothers you then move on. I am often told I am sexy, although I don't really see it. I am by no means lazy, if my friends ask me to go to the gym with them or go walking I'm right there, I just am not good at finding the time to do it consistantly, and I hate going by myself. In addition to that I have such a huge appreciation for good food, but I dont eat all day or anything.
Also, I live with my family. I pay rent for two rooms for me and my daughters. I choose to do this because it gives me extra cash and my family helps me out with my daughters because I work alot.
Whew, well I'm pretty sure that is the important stuff, if your still interested in getting to know me, awsome, if not thank you for your time and good luck in your search for happiness.