creativity, inspiration, kindness, lightness, confidence (not ego) and intelligence are what attract me. i admire men who are self-made, have purpose and dreams! there is no perfect formula or list here... i can see you as an individual and don't judge. i tend to communicate with words, touch, and if we're lucky, on a higher level. it's important that i am with someone who is spiritual and aware of how interconnected we all are. this, of course, requires empathy and sensitivity.

online, here on OKC, i hope to find friends. it begins with dating, and eventually we figure out if our minds, souls, and lives can wander within the same course. it's not too complicated; i like to keep it as simple as possible. life is complicated enough.

learning to be a better person/mother/friend, personal deconstruction, collecting useless factoids, seeing relevance, paying attention, communicating. living in the present.

my smile, and laugh. in a moment, you'll know i am warm... meaning i am at ease, and you can be too. i am genuine.

I prefer a good whiskey straight up, ride (my own) motorcyles, have discrete tattoos, am occasionally irresponsible, stay up late, am slightly warped, prefer reading NF to tv, am slightly neurotic about keeping my kitchen spotless, sometimes have a potty mouth, fiscally conservative but socially (very) liberal, can operate a bobcat, have been to the playa 8 times, am on time, am a pisces, am INFJ, know things I shouldn't know... and, have inhaled.

you're real.