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mish_jr

43 / F / straight / Single

San Antonio, Texas

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Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5' 0" (1.52m).
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New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
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Leo and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from college/university
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Other
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Rather not say
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Has children
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Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am feisty, silly, and kinda smart.

My Self-Summary

I've lived in San Antonio, Texas my entire life. That may sound lame to some of you but I absolutely love Texas and I don't think I'd ever want to leave it. Seriously.

A friend once bought me a button that read "if i'm attracted to you then you're probably not good for me". It was funny, but unfortunately does seem to be a little too true.

What I’m doing with my life

Raising my two kids. My son is pretty much grown at 20 but there's still work to do on him. ;-) My daughter is 11 and just started middle school. Ughh... she's boy-crazy. They make me crazy sometimes but they are the joys in my life!

Keeping my massage business running.

I co-founded a grass-roots organization that deals with the San Antonio Independent School District's public school system. It's a labor of love but takes up a whole lot of my time and energy. Here's my most recent interview ~oct. 8 with woai tv. (sorry, you'll have to copy & paste if you wanna check it out.)
http://www.woai.com/content/troubleshooters/story/Critics-trash-SAISD-about-unused-garbage-truck/Y4D8B_qn0Eq45PafMhuZcA.cspx

I’m really good at

Massaging. I'm a licensed massage therapist (LMT), since 2003. Swing dancing. Bartending. being a general smart ass. oh... and i'm a helluva procrastinator.

The first things people usually notice about me

my red hair and my smile... so they say.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I HATE this question. It's like being asked what you want for your birthday or christmas. Suddenly you can't think of anything!

The six things I could never do without

my kids. my friends. my cell phone. the internet ~ preferably wireless. drinking. affection.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

all the things i SHOULD be doing rather than doing whatever it is am currently doing.

On a typical Friday night I am

at a loss now. they switched my bartending shifts so now i'm free. to do what, i don't know.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

sometimes i hole up in my bedroom all alone. all i want. all i need. is the wifi i get from the coffeehouse next door. my oh-so-warm blanket. my cell phone (but only texting at this point) and some take-out. yeah... i'll eat in bed. hmm... maybe some wine too.

You should message me if

let me tell you who SHOULDN'T message me... if you're gonna start the conversation with sex. if you're gonna steer the conversation towards sex within the first 5 minutes. if you're gonna tell me what a high sex drive you have... then don't fuckin' message me.

look... i'm no prude. far from it. but if you think the way to "charm" a woman is to throw out the sex card right away... i don't wanna hear from you.

hey... i love sex. alot. but if that's all i wanted.. then hell... i'd just go out to the closest bar and hook up, at least there i'd get a few free drinks.

so how bout you act like a grown man and woo a woman.