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32 Manchester, UK Man, Androgynous

Man, Androgynous

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–37
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 24
Asian, Middle Eastern, Indian, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
5′ 10″ (1.79m)
Body type
Mostly vegan
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of space camp
Art / Music / Writing
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Fluently), Norwegian (Okay), Sanskrit (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Bit of a hand full. Come without a much needed manual. Sorry.

But then there's this: I am awkward, fun, sociable, up for good discussions and always game to explore new things. I also love to just forget the world exists and watch movies online in bed with popcorn going places where it shouldn't.

I tend to move around western/northern Europe and need a man who wants to make me stay somewhere as that's where we are together (and from there we'd travel together, I am not a homebody). This also means I may not technically be in Manchester right now, but it's a matter of a few hours and I could be. Or in Berlin, Brussels, Oslo, Amsterdam, Stockholm, Copenhagen, Reykjavik, Vienna, Edinburgh... That are about the capitals of the countries I have lived or would live (though there may be other options, try me). You there or want to be there? It might just work out, I move in a heartbeat.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a storyteller at heart and by profession, telling my own stories and those of others. But this is not your ordinary stuff. As I am a graphic designer and a visual & sound artist I explore the various realms and look for new ways to engage people. I also coach others in storytelling and do a range of other things when the situation calls for it (and it does so frequently).

What I am also doing with my life, albeit not desperately, is keeping an eye open for that one Mr. Right with whom to eventually build a life and future together. True romantic here.

Other than that: trying to figure it all out and having a good time with the people I care about.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Storytelling, I'd hope.

Other than that people tell me I'm emphatic, smart, inventive and loyal. I have a weird sense of humour which often goes quite dark, not everyone's cuppa.

One day I hope to find someone and together become the best dads one could possibly find.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Puppy eyes. They lure you in and never let you go. Be warned, m'dear, be warned.

Or, seen from the other side: my bum. Cute as hell.
(I've been told it looks very fuckable. I'll just put it out there. Do with it what you will. Not with my bum, with the statement. You perv.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
As much as I write, I hardly read. I'll go stand in a corner now.

I will never publicly admit to the lousy tv shows I'm addicted too, but I refuse to wait a week to see what happens next. I marathon shows on rainy days that are just meant for procrastination. Oh what a joy it'd be to procrastinate together.

As for food... I am a vegan, rarely going into vegetarian territory. This is important as I don't date living graveyards (i.e. carnivores). The idea of sticking my tongue somewhere where death just passed I find repulsive, let along keeping corpses in my fridge (also, I believe in treating animals with respect and dignity).
But keep the animals out and this boy eats about everything save for cauliflower (I mean, really?). Particularly fond of vegan bangers & mash (comfort food!), mediterranean and anything middle-eastern. Total foodie here, love to spend entire days in the kitchen.

Music and movies... from mainstream to obscure, from the classics to the post-neo-futuro stuff. It can be anything, everything and nothing.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Imagination and dreams are the only two things I truly need.

What would be nice in addition is a luscious partner/boyfriend/eventual husband and someday a bunch of kids (adopted).

And of course a nice home, friends, good food, enough money to enjoy life a bit and, y'know, the basics.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where to live next/what to do next/how to look next/who to meet next.

I love to keep changing things up. At the same time I do long for stability as I actually hate change. I'm weird like that.

(When it comes to love I'm fairly traditional though (other than this bloke-on-bloke action): I am one for the monogamous long-term thing with wedding bells and toddlers (less a fan of babies) and once we're old a retirement somewhere on a remote island where the two of us spend our golden years hiding from the world in eternal bliss.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No such thing as typical. It can be out in the town doing drinks and a movie with friends. It can be clubbing (particularly a fan of latin and old skool drum 'n bass), you get bonus points if you can dance). It can be slaving for a deadline behind my laptop. I can have that sudden brilliant idea and have to work on it straight away. I can be too tired to do anything and just sleep. I can be cooking a meal at home for friends. I can be removed by security from that roller coaster I just love too much. Friday night can be so many things.

(I also run my own shizzle, which means I work totally irregular and have no Friday night feeling like most other people do. The plus side of this is that I am flexible as hell and live life largely according to my own rules.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a nerd and lovin' it.

Actually, I admit much much more in the public realm through my storytelling but let me introduce that to you slowly.
You should message me if
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You are looking for either new friends or something serious. I am not the kind for a hookup or just a quick fuck. Not saying sex ain't important, but love comes first. If you want sex on the first or second date, keep looking elsewhere. We'll get there but I need to know you're worth it first.

Invest in me and I invest in you (assuming we like each other).

Also: the vegetarian thing is not a joke. If you're convinced eating animals is, or remains, part of your life, keep looking elsewhere. It seriously disgusts me, no matter how hot you are.

And if you're truly interested, keep in mind I don't just want a relationship. One day I want a family. That's not up for discussion. Not your thing? Keep looking elsewhere.

Oh, and while I might be a sucker for fairy tales, I don't date religious folk. I really don't have time to pretend fairy tales are real, nor do I understand the desire to belong to something that is here to oppress people. Faith I can understand, religion less so. I will be nice to your mum though if she's religious, as long as she sincerely respects her kid as a gay or bi- person and his partner (that'd be me, I guess).

I am not old old, but I am at that stage in life where I know what I want and don't want to fool around anymore when it comes to love. I do love to fool around with the one I love though. If you're like that too and we match on other levels, who knows how amazing things could be? I'm hella fun.