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36 Berkeley, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:08pm
Asian, White
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Buddhism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Indonesian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Heyooo!!! I grew up around these parts and moved back a couple years ago after bouncing around the US and the globe. I love adventuring and just about anything that involves being outdoors and in nature (including, but not limited to) hiking, camping, and cruising around on my bicycle (I'm not a hardcore cyclist, more like running errands and leisurely rides - no spandex required kind of stuff). I make sure that I find time to do yoga regularly; nothing compares to the feeling you have after a good yoga class. I also recently took up rock-climbing, but am still kind of a wienie on the wall.

Seeing good live music can keep me giddy for a couple days after the show. I used to live a mile away from a venue that got some really good artists so I would find myself going to shows several times a month.

I'm a bit of a travel junkie and when I say travel I mean traveling and experiencing the culture, not being a tourist/running around from one site to another. I usually have the richest experiences in developing countries, though I definitely appreciate the comfort and beauty of the developed world. Hopefully one day I will be able to say I've touched down on all seven continents. (only one more to go!)

I enjoy making others laugh and doing thoughtful little things for the people in my life. It takes a lot to make me angry, in fact the last time I lost it was over five years ago. I laugh *A LOT* and I appreciate a person who can be funny without being mean. I am comfortable with who I am; I am feminine, without being a "girly girl".

PS-I'm vegetarian, but am not the type to judge someone else for eating meat.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-being charmingly clumsy
-appreciating the little things
-enhancing/ruining pictures by making faces in them
-eating chocolate
-taking care of/helping others
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I guess I would say in terms of physical appearance: my face is pretty expressive so it's hard for me to hide my reaction to things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books-various non-fiction and just about anything by Tom Robbins, I recently finished A Short History of Nearly Everything by Bill Bryson and am working on The Serpent and The Rainbow, a non-fictional account of zombies in Haiti.

movies-Coen brothers, Wes Anderson, and Taika Waititi flicks, indie stuff, Airplane!, documentaries

shows-The Daily Show, Colbert Report, Space Ghost Coast to Coast, Arrested Development, Archer, Drunk History, Radiolab, Snap Judgment, This American Life

music-too much to put here, but here's a smattering: Radiohead, Iron and Wine, Fleet Foxes, My Morning Jacket, Thievery Corporation, Elbow, Beach House, the New Pornographers, Neko Case, Grizzly Bear, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Karl Denson's Tiny Universe, Sigur Ros, Wilco, Spoon, The National, Alt-J, The War on Drugs, music that makes me want to jump around and dance

food-everything except Korean (I lived there for over a year and it just isn't terribly veg friendly)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how I can help others (friends, family, those in need, animals, the planet), what should I eat next?, the next adventure (big and small)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-you're interested in more than just casual sex
-you have more to say than "Hi, how are you?"/are able to demonstrate that you have read my profile (a little nugget that you can feel free to use with any female you message on here)
-you don't feel compelled to have a shirtless picture of yourself on here, it's great that you have a sculpted torso, but that is not on my list of must have's
-you think you might be able to make me laugh, which isn't terribly hard