Happy New Year!
If you are;
As swift as the coursing river,
With all the force of a great typhoon,
With all the strength of a raging fire,
As mysterious as the dark side of the moon.
Then I am very keen to hear from you.
Like wise if you identify with any of the following; sapiosexuality, intellectualism, wanderlust, carnality, whoredom, polyamory, existentialism, leonine, androgyny, pansexuality.
I am currently living in my hometown; the beautiful and inspiring city of Oxford. I work in the entertainment/events industry, and it is no where near as glamorous as it sounds.
I am polyamorous. This means I have multiple relationships; some are romantic, some sex based, others kind of in-between. Lines between friendships, lovers and loves kind of blur for me. So if you want monogamy then you'll not get that from me. Poly for me means that I can appreciate and experience all manner of beautiful things with different people. It has taught me a lot about myself. Furthermore it means I don't have to be 'the perfect one' or 'other half' of another.
I am also a feminist, liberal & sex-posi however I abhor certain aspects of feminism. You won't find any misandry here, I very much enjoy male company and I believe that our inherently sexist and patriarchal society damages the male ego as much as it does the female. I find that my feminist views are quite evolving and I do love to discuss anything regarding gender, sexuality and relationships - I find it all fascinating.
I am apparently rather complex, paradoxical, a ponderer and a dreamer. I can have a narcissistic streak and can at times be a total whore for attention. Yet at other times I like to hide away, hibernate and enjoy my own company. I very much love my own space.
Music is one of my greatest passions, I did my degree in music business which I found fascinating. I find myself wanting to take up playing music again at the moment, I used to play violin so I guess I'll start there. I particularly love live music and festivals though don't get to appreciate them as often as I like.
I love to read and have recently re-discovered my passion for learning and reading. I'd love to consider myself an intellectual, I have recently decided to dedicate my life to learning & pleasure. My favourite activities are those that include both ;)
I am a keen and cunning linguist (see what I did there) , I am currently teaching myself French, German, Spanish, Italian and have recently taught myself the Arabic alphabet and numerals. I have plans to eventually learn Japanese, Mandarin, Russian and Portuguese. I love the idea of being multi-lingual and plan to be as fluent as possible in several languages by the time I am 40.
I am a fleshy curvy size 18 (not that it matters), I love food and am generally very comfortable in my body (we all have bad days). I like to rebel against society's hetero-normative standards of beauty by being chubby and loving it. And still being drop dead gorgeous :p I do however wish I was stronger and fitter (I HATE cardio) and am working on this at the moment.
I am currently very much interested in taking up MMA, however due to my recent period of unemployment such desires have had to take a back seat until I am more financially abundant.