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miss_T_Pans

25 Oxford, UK Non-binary, Woman

Non-binary, Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:10am
Orientation
Heteroflexible, Sapiosexual, Pansexual, Demisexual, Questioning
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Full figured
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Status
Seeing Someone
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you are;

As swift as the coursing river,
With all the force of a great typhoon,
With all the strength of a raging fire,
As mysterious as the dark side of the moon.

Then I am very keen to hear from you.

All the essentials you need to know in a list;

* Left Handed
* INTP
* Aquarius
* Slytherin
* 18, 38DD
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Having an existential crisis, most likely.

I also work. I like working. My current routine makes me happy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Taking up space

Meditation

Procrasturbating
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I need new glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
No one reads this bit;

The Second Sex
Marina & The Diamonds
The Lion King
Peep Show or I'm Alan Partridge
Steak
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Eyes (not just mine, other people's too)
Smiles
My own space
Scent
Warmth
Condoms
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the English language sounds to a non-English speaking person.

Paradoxes.

Filth.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Catching the tears of virgins and marauding for flesh.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I read Marquis de Sade's Justine and enjoyed it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a soul.

You're a bit weird, nerdy or have eccentric / deviant interests.

You like cats.

You like a bizarre mix of acute girly ditziness combined with hard logic*, the mouth of a soldier, a posh accent and sarcasm.

*Occasionally PMT interferes with the hard logic bit.