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miss_ghita

25 / F / straight / Seeing someone

Johannesburg, South Africa

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Rather Not Say
Income
Kids
Dislikes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English, Afrikaans (Okay)

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I am cheeky, dark, and a reluctant idealist.

My Self-Summary

I've spent much of my life moving around, being immersed in very different cultures and having rather strange experiences...

I value above most things compassion, learning and honesty, and although I tend to be a bit of a dry intellectual, I am making efforts to be more of a juicy one :)

I am idealistic, stubborn, prone to hyperbole and very, very tender-hearted. I like to think of myself as a mystic at heart with a very tangible respect for scientific inquiry...

What I’m doing with my life

Stumbling through it, then looking back in hindsight and being so pleasantly surprised at how perfectly it all worked out!

I am gearing up to return to school, one of only a few things I can really justify doing right now.

I’m really good at

I cook well, at least I think so! and I am good at knowing what presents to buy for people.

Given enough time, I can convince anyone, and I mean anyone, of anything. What is sometimes crassly called "bullshitting" is actually a fine and noble art that I have mastered over the years...

I am good at talking, at planning, at making things more efficient, at seeing things from many perspectives, at adapting, at creating.

Also, I have knack for making green things grow :)

The first things people usually notice about me

I come across a little too serious...

I might seem quite unassuming at first, but people are a little surprised once they get to really know me...

I also have an accent

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Siddhartha, Herman Hesse
The Tao of Physics, Frijof Capra
Anything by Nabokov, (real) sci fi, Phillip Roth

Happy Go Lucky, Network, Michael Clayton, Twin Peaks, "Mouchette", Fox and his Friends, Days of heaven, synecdoche new york

Bach, (old) Skinny Puppy, electronic, dub, just getting into opera, Jazz, kwaito

Indian food, chocolate, grapefruit

The six things I could never do without

Small animals
Books
Plenty of good sleep
Sex

and uh... I don't know, soap? I'm pretty adaptable.

On a typical Friday night I am

Overeating, maybe watching bad reality tv

I "unplug", have a hot bath, just relax...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have serious ...doubts

You should message me if

You would appreciate some good conversation
You are smart, or at least think you are, and you believe that that's very important
You never lie (I mean, you lie about little things, but you hate the whole idea)
You are not above slapstick humour
You are neat, organized and self disciplined (you make up for it by being extra filthy on occasion, though)
You love the outdoors
You are rational, but appreciate ambiguity and mystery anyway