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35 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 7
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Indonesian (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~M. Monroe

I am as bad as the worst, but, thank God, I am as good as the best. (W. Whitman)

too much
too little
too fat
too thin
or nobody. (C. Bukowski)

I never like the part where I have to write about myself. Maybe someday and it'll be a published memoir. But for now... Things people say about me: funny, a little crazy/weird, energetic, fun, loud, positive, quirky, talkative, smart, passionate, bubbly and cute. You be the judge :)

Oh, and I cuss like a (drunken) sailor and a natural born night owl. Consider yourself warned.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to make it in the real world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking to myself. You'd see me walking the streets of New York mumbling, talking and no phone/earphones in sight. Or maybe memorizing lines. That and procrastinating.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Like I just had a 5-hour energy drink. Or coke. And funny. Haha. Right.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
All time fave book is The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. I swear it saved my life. Movies, too many to remember but I'll try. Forest Gump, Trainspotting, Sliding Doors, Crash, Babel, Taxi Driver, Reality Bites, What's Eating Gilbert Grape, Mermaids, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Doubt, The Notebook, 500 days of summer, Little Miss Sunshine, The Accused etc. Like seriously. You want me to go on? Same goes with shows -- too many to mention but Fawlty Towers for the win!

Music, I like the usual mainstream pop, rock, alternative, some classical -- The Killers, Keane, Muse, The Cranberries, Florence and the Machine, etc. I also love electronic music, progressive, trance type.

Food? E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G edible. I draw the line at bugs and reptiles though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
[In chronological order]

1. Air
2. My family
3. My friends
4. The Internet
5. My laptop
6. Coffee -- {Ok fine. Water before coffee}

And food, obviously.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I am going to do first. Or eat. And how strange people are.

Also selfies, Instagram, the world, dick pics and why I'm not getting them. *Please don't send me dick pics. Ever*

Or just thinking about how glorious and successful my future is going to be - practicing my Oscars speech.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either staying in or out and about catching up with friends over food and drinks. Or just drinks. Or going to see a play somewhere. Yeah.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That it's mind-boggling how lonely people can be...

And that my time management sucks. I will deny this if you ask.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 31–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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You are kind human beings with patient and open hearts. People who are mature, funny, intelligent, fun and are willing to try new things. Gentle souls who appreciate the arts and humanity, people who mean what they say and say what they mean and deliver -- no bullshit. Basically I'm seeking for amazing human beings! I'd also like to meet more people outside my circle and closer to my age.

"All our young lives we search for someone to love. Someone who makes us complete. We choose partners and change partners. We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope, all the while wondering if somewhere, somehow, there's someone perfect who might be searching for us..." ~The Wonder Years

P.S: I haven't seen The Wonder Years. I came across the quote by random and it just struck a chord. Thank you.