The first thing you should know about me is that I'm a total geek. Not a WOW, or War Hammer geek. Put your tongue back in your mouth and your 12 sided die away! I mean that I like real intellectual pursuits. I like understanding the cutting edge of topics and discussing philosophy at length, with people who have good vocabulary. I read New Scientist and am just shy of galf way through a PhD researching Amazonian Shamanism in Britain.
I like men in glasses, elbow patched and bow ties. I watch documentaries for breakfast.This is offset by having dyslexia that I have worked hard to overcome, severe blonde moments, and a taste for fail clips on Youtube.
I'm going to be honest and put my heart on my sleeve. I'm looking for a loving relationship, and someone who I can share the Sunday Papers with. OK I don't really read papers in print, but walk my none existent dog maybe. You get the picture. I want to chill out, and relax. Yet still I'm not going to jump into a relationship for the sake of having one. It takes me time to decide if I want to commit. I don't believe relationships should be hard work. If it's not fun why bother.
I like the occasional rave or gig but for the most part I have my head in books. It would be great if I could find someone who can tolerate my dedication to research (it's only going to be for the next few years) but is able to pull me out of it from time to time for a bit of romance and fun.
I'm not so much a going to the pub kinda gal, more the cinema, or a coffee, or an evening in with friends kind. Mainly because I don't drink.
It's fair to say I am pretty spiritual. I do believe in God but don't subscribe to any mainstream religions. My interpretation for what God is is transient. I'm more than happy to have a relationship with an atheist, and I won't try and change you if you don't try and change me. I do have a pretty critical mind but don't think that positivism is the be all and end all. It is important to let a bit of magic and wonder into life.
Right I'm tacking this on here because the energy has just compelled me to do so. I realise I have left my profile and preferences a bit open and i'm getting flooded with messages from guys I think are loosers. It has hit me that I'm worth a lot more than that. So here's what I'm looking for.
Some level of style. But not lables style. Your own style, without any silly purple items to 'express your uniqueness'. No pack followers but no dicks either. An appreciation for art design and media that extends beyond watching films and appreciating logos and brands. The ability to have a range of in depth discussions on a variery of subjects and wonder enough to do so while not jumping into a state of having to impose your opinion or change the other. The sensitivity to show how my company is appreciated whilst remaining subtle enough to keep me guessing just a little. The soundness of mind to either accept or change whatevers going on. No whinging about how crap things are. The openess to accept my passions, ambitions and beliefs particulalry around shamanism and psychedelics. You don't have to share them but you have no right to take them from me. The opportinity to get me in front of some quality sound recording gear and let me play. The will to travel for some serious time with me. I'm an anthropologist.
You rfavourite football team is of no interest to me.
I get on with creative, adventurous people, and like those who aim to inspire. Be one of these guys. If not for me but for yourself.