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missmary81

33 Astoria, NY Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–38
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 1
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Originally from the WI, my career brought me to New York City. I've been here for almost 10 years, but I'll always be Mary from Wisconsin. You can take the girl out of the midwest, but you can't take the midwest out of the girl!

You're not going to believe me, but I'm a professional opera singer. Yup, music is my full-time job that pays the bills.

BUT I'm very easygoing, kind of shy, always smiling, a goofball, generally an optimist, and adventuresome.

My ideal man wouldn't be opposed to coming to my concerts and experiencing artistic types of things. Who doesn't want free concert tickets? No need to know anything about classical music, just a desire to support your rockstar ladyfriend. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
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Performing engagements all over the country, and a part-time university position take up most of my time, but I do have some big hobbies.

My second love is craft beer and homebrewing. I'm pretty serious about it, actually, and I do work in the industry when I have spare time. I would love to have a manly homebrewing assistant that I can order around. Looking to fill that position permanently.

During football season you'll find me at Kettle of Fish with my fellow Sconnies rooting for the Packers. I hope you don't mind sharing me with Aaron Rodgers.

I've become more interested in running in the past couple of years. Running a marathon has now become a life goal. I also love hiking. If I'm near mountains, let me at 'em!

I'm traveling more and more for work and I'm really enjoying that. Any chance to escape NYC is awesome. It can be hard to thoroughly explore when I'm working, but I always try to find the local craft breweries.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-listening
-solving problems
-organizing/decorating
-assembling Ikea furniture
-navigating
-singing, of course
-educating anyone about beer and not being a jerk about it
The first things people usually notice about me
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I apparently look like Mary Louise Parker.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: poetry of Rumi, Cloudstreet, The Art of Loving, Bill Bryson, Garrison Keillor, Devil in the White City, To the Center of the Earth, The Fountainhead

Some favorite artists: The Black Keys, Mariah Carey, Frank Sinatra, Peggy Lee, Esperanza Spalding, D'Angelo, J Dilla, Common, Jill Scott... All music from the 90's (especially R&B and hip hop). Messiaen, Schoenberg, Copland, lots of very modern classical music.

Movies: White Christmas, Forrest Gump, A Royal Wedding, Funny Face, Wall-e, Monsters Inc

TV: Slings and Arrows is my favorite TV show. Aside from that, all the good TV that every watches? I watch all that stuff.

Beer is definitely my favorite food. Oh, wait...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family
Best lady friends
Music and all things artistic

Honorable mentions:
-Great Beer
-Cheese
-High Heels
-Ikea
-A super comfy bed
-Good coffee in the morning
-Dangly interesting earrings
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- what music I have to learn next.
- when is my next real day off?
- why are New Yorkers so oblivious to other people's personal space? This does not happen in the Midwest.
- lately, moving...I'm ready for a new chapter somewhere else.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Define typical for a working musician...

If I'm not in rehearsal or performing (or having a drink with colleagues after), I'm probably going to take the opportunity to stay home and relax with some tv, or a book, and a beer. My schedule can be quite hectic, and I can be running around for hours at a time, so I appreciate my quiet time when I can get it.

If I'm in the mood to go out, I like to stay in my neighborhood in Queens and hang out with close friends. There are so many great restaurants and bars, but the vibe is totally chill.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm terrified of spiders, and I believe pedicures are a form of torture.
You should message me if
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You think it might be fun to get to know me as a friend first.

Dating-wise, I'm ultimately looking for something long term, but that doesn't mean I want to get married tomorrow! Geez, calm down! I really have no desire to rush into anything. Honestly, my career is pretty important to me, and it will take the right man to understand what I do.

I really value good conversation and communication skills. The art of the phone call is not dead!

But I believe laughter is also a part of good conversation, so I hope you are a little bit of a goof like me.