True story behind this profile is one of my friends after her heartbreak created one and wanted me to help her fill out her profile.. I created one out of boredom or curiosity and so I could help her "look" Several years later she is engaged and despite threats I haven't deleted this thing...yet. I say that with all my online social media things truth be told but this the most cause it is all too strange to me

I have a love-hate relationship with these websites and filling out these profiles. Right up there with the inane nature that a job interview these days. Or maybe my own memoir or campaign speech. Pick me pick me. Remember me. Ohh shiny.. So what the heck am I doing here? My masochistic tendencies mixed with being an adrenaline junkie, will always lead me to try try again.. Maybe someone will break through the mind numbing monotony and disappointment.

and yes I picked this moniker after Spider-Man. She is my favorite though Poison Ivy/Pamela Isley, Jessica Rabbit would suffice.

I can play the role of the hermit and social butterfly. I love museums, movies, thrift stores, coffee, comic books/graphic novels, anime, pop culture, anything and everything music, tattoos, dive clubs/bars, fashion and so on. Although these days I am more prone to being quiet and my idea of a good party has changed.

Bay area born, raised and educated with ties to the peninsula, the city, the south bay as well as Santa Rosa.
I currently live in Foster City. I love the coast from Pacifica to Santa Cruz the best. I also like roadtrips and can never get enough of Reno/Lake Tahoe, Los Angeles, San Diego to name a few.

Been thinking more and more about moving, unless something concrete holds me here.

Label me if you must, although I avoid it. Silly OKC recommended one user to me who rambled on and on about more or less not liking half of the things I do, which makes me question the validity of their so called matching system..

I have the other usual networking sites: Twitter, Myspace, Facebook a couple blogs. If you want to follow or know me there if I get to know you can exchange

I would say I am moderate on things such as religion and politics and happily so. Especially watching as the two sides these days are in a battle for extreme polarization. I try to love all people and give them a chance regardless of labels

I am quirky, quick-witted, and stylish

trying to to take it day by day. Sometimes second by second. It is a rat race and I have to try and stop it all at times. I am one of those people that does not want to be defined by their career. Life is too short. Did the school and college thing, and my over-achiever mentality wore me down. Friends, family and memories are what it is all about. I am trying to translate a lot of the negative into positives in my life.

I am a clinical coordinator for a Medical Device Company/Research support. It is a cool and very busy job I enjoy tremendously. Yes I truly love my job beyond the paycheck and am prone to talking/gushing about it. STEM girls rule...if that enthusiasm bothers you, I am likely not good company.

It is not easy also letting go of people that hurt you and overhauling my life in that department. Patient and supportive people that have gone through this and can help me would be cool as well. Past two or so years have really been all at once frightening and empowering.

I work also as an independent contractor distributing and promoting various health goods and beauty products and temporary work from time to time as it took awhile to where I am and I need to stay busy.

Staying up all night thinking about everything and nothing all at once.
Have crazy dreams I really should write down and channel my creative energy into using them for work.
Laughing for hours on end for no reason. I am good with the one liners and other silly things
Talking about baseball non stop. I am a virtual encyclopedia.

Doubting myself. Making people laugh. Tripping over my own feet as though drunk although very much sober. Speaking in lyrics, movie quotes or book excerpts. Eliciting the deer in headlights look with my sarcasm. Feeling all at once 16 and 80. Throwing together a stylish ensemble. Showing off my vocabulary.
Losing myself staring at the stars/moon/ocean

running and be a fitness bad ass

Not sleeping and updating silly profiles like this at 2AM. sighs

I have redhair....or auburn to be exact. I look younger than my age and a fun sense of style. Cute lil tattoos. I have a picture of one of them on here. It really is a medium penny red I get bored and make it darker or lighter but yes I am a redhead

Apparently I look like Flo the Progressive car insurance girl on a certain day. Come talk to be about saving money and bundling your insurance package..eh...I just walked into trouble.

Joe Meno, Hunter S. Thompson, Chuck Palahniuk, Kurt Vonnegut, Jack Kerouac, John Steinbeck, Margaret Atwood, George Orwell, Oscar Wilde, Dave Eggers, Aldous Huxley, Shakespeare, and the list goes on. Also a proud comic and Graphic Novel geek. And sometimes for fun, pop culture teenagey junk. Don't hate.

Movies:
Fight Club. Walk The Line. Ghost World. Pretty In Pink. The Breakfast Club. Party Monster. Spiderman. Laurel Canyon. DeathProof, Breakfast at Tiffany's. X-Men. Ferris Bueller's Day Off. Spirited Away. Nightmare Before Christmas. Reality Bites. Requiem for A Dream. All of the Batman movies. A Christmas Story. Pulp Fiction. The Goonies. Neverending Story. American Pie/Wedding.. Mission Impossible. Rushmore. High Fidelity. Boondock Saints. Star Wars. Forgetting Sarah Marshall. Empire Records. I Heart Huckabees. Girls Just Wanna Have Fun. Ghostbusters. American Psycho. There's Something About Mary. A Clockwork Orange. Say Anything. Suspiria. Some Kind Of Wonderful. Little Miss Sunshine. Good Will Hunting. Can't Hardly Wait. Romy & Michelle's High School Reunion, Princess Mononoke. MILK. Anchorman. Superbad. Rum Diary.

TV: I watch and rewatch Criminal Minds almost obsessively. I think I crave the adrenaline rush. And I get to use all of my psychology and whatever else so my education wasn't a wash right? Jeopardy, Scrubs, Family Guy, and the Simpsons.

Radiohead, Sonic Youth, Interpol, Cold War Kids, Band of Horses,The Cure, Florence + The Machine, Ferry Corsten, Archer Nation, She and Him, Sublime,The Faint, Kings of Leon, James Durbin, The Killers, Lana Del Rey, MSTRKRFT, The Chemical Brothers, Crystal Method, Kissing Club, DJ Shadow, The Smiths, Damien Rice, Neon Trees, Joy Division, Fiona Apple, Lou Reed, Shiny Toy Guns, Jeff Buckley, DMB, Muse, The Editors, The Who, MIA, Pink Floyd, Beck, Fugazi, Editors, Ryan Adams, Tin Tin Can, Mutemath, Guns N Roses, Placebo, Johnny Cash, June Carter, Fleetwood Mac, Sigur Ros, Modest Mouse, Bat for Lashes, Death Cab for Cutie, Green Day, Mumford and Sons, Metric, Pinback, Best Coast, My Bloody Valentine, Rilo Kiley, Cranes. Way too much indie 90s stuff to waste your time mentioning. Yes I wear my Gen-X cloak well

Thai food, Fresh Fruit, Japanese. In N Out now and then. Fresh Salsa, Carne Asada, Indian, Curries, omlettes, etc. I also assert that Srirachia sauce and peanut butter are food groups of their own.

Coffee, soft comforters, good conversation, music, journals, friends. and cause I don't like to follow rules I will throw a couple more out there: the aforementioned Srirachia sauce as well as scented bath washes. Hey I have to pull the girl card sometimes. Of course irony, sarcasm, double entendres, Cognitive dissonance , figurative language, cats, books and someone to hug me now and then and be nice or something

Oh please find the switch and calm my worried head. When am I not thinking.
Places I would like to visit or move to. Where time has gone. New and creative recipes for peanut butter and sriracha sauce.

What I would do in the event of the zombie or vampire apocalypse. I vote morph into a robot and marry Optimus Prime if he is still single at that point. Hey I would just be making best of a tough situation right?

Satisfying my inner adrenaline junkie-roller coasters, the tattoos, etc. etc. Yeah I have a thick skin. Takes a lot.

I have a photographic memory + journal a great deal so obviously if I like it or not I spend a lot of time thinking period
Falling in love with ficticious characters. If I could actually find a real life Spencer Reid I could die happy. Hell a weapon wielding FBI profiling genius that still has a child like quality and is cute is too much to ask right? Oh well

Why must it be a Friday? How about Tuesday or perhaps Thursday. I don't drink to excess any longer. I have several sets of friends those that either still do go out to clubs or those that are all domesticated. I am just trying to be the best me I can. Whatever that means.
Responding to celebrities/ SF Giants on Twitter? Matthew Gray Gubler and John Fugelsang will eventually answer me back.

Obsessing over the Giants...Brandon Crawford.

Working out/running. Beating up on the elliptical machine.

Reading and relaxing

Yapping about my job
If it is baseball season watching a game. Or maybe at one

Tring new gluten free aka tummy friendly recipes.

I am an open book. But you will have to take the time to read between the lines.
I sometimes make believe I hear background music as I go about my life. Or that I have a narrator sort of like Ferris Bueller meets My So Called Life.
I get caught lip syncing in stores or the car. The most embarassing of songs no less

I should put something like "I have a glock and I am not afraid to use it" cause bet that would make me Internet cool? Lol

You can hold a conversation and make me laugh. I will gladly return the favor. Yes right off the bat. Hopefully be a bit silly and goofy yet smart and goal oriented. Self proclaimed artists, actors or whatever else.

You have a comfortable balance of being grounded and motivated yet still try and take time to enjoy the world with a heart of a child. You're not so desperate and insecure about being single you click yes and message to nearly anything with a pulse in your geographical area. You have a musical recommendation or book for me. Someone new to my area looking to swap "cool places/cities to check out" tips with

above all just be a decent person. I'm tired of false folks who play the "nice" card and are anything but :( Confidence is great when tempered with an ounce of humility. Think I care about how many others are chasing after you or padding your ego even more? Think again.

I like people that are secure with the fact they are single. Why is this such a stigma? Yes this is a connecting site but I am not at all what you would call desperate or the typical female worrying about my clock ticking, etc. Love yourself foremost. Everyone else is here just to compliment the journey

Please be functional. I want people to walk beside me, not forcing me into codependent or caretaker roles. You can have a heart of a child yet still be an adult. Having people that lead a healthy non abusive lifestyle would be nice

I don't do mail order whatever it is. Please stop writing me from outside the US sounding like some old school mail order bride/husband crap.
annnnd if you actually read all this you get a cookie.. If you don't think I totally suck and am too strange in a bad way. Although I might take that as a compliment. Being too conformist is boring and if anything I am never bored.