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38 • San Mateo, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 26–42
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Mar 18
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Christianity, but not too serious about it
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), German (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Fluently)
I have a love-hate relationship with these websites and filling out these profiles. Right up there with the inane nature that a job interview these days. Or maybe my own memoir or campaign speech. Pick me pick me. Remember me. Ohh shiny.. So what the heck am I doing here? My masochistic tendencies mixed with being an adrenaline junkie, will always lead me to try try again.. Maybe someone will break through the mind numbing monotony and disappointment.
and yes I picked this moniker after Spider-Man. She is my favorite though Poison Ivy/Pamela Isley, Jessica Rabbit would suffice. Or maybe Cherry Valance when I rock it old school
I can play the role of the hermit and social butterfly. I love museums, movies, thrift stores, coffee, comic books/graphic novels, anime, pop culture, anything and everything music, tattoos, dive clubs/bars, fashion and so on. Although these days I am more prone to being quiet and my idea of a good party has changed.
Bay area born, raised and educated with ties to the peninsula, the city, the south bay as well as Santa Rosa.
I currently live in Foster City. I love the coast from Pacifica to Santa Cruz the best. I love mini road trips, especially to Sacramento/Davis. I feel so at ease and at home there and the drive is lots of fun
Label me if you must, although I avoid it. Silly OKC recommended one user to me who rambled on and on about more or less not liking half of the things I do, which makes me question the validity of their so called matching system..
I have the other usual networking sites: Twitter, Myspace, Facebook a couple blogs. If you want to follow or know me there if I get to know you can exchange
I would say I am moderate on things such as religion and politics and happily so. Especially watching as the two sides these days are in a battle for extreme polarization. I try to love all people and give them a chance regardless of labels
I am quirky, quick-witted, and stylish
It is not easy also letting go of people that hurt you and overhauling my life in that department. Patient and supportive people that have gone through this and can help me would be cool as well. Past two or so years have really been all at once frightening and empowering.
I am working as a teacher's aide and other contract work, as I search for full time work. Bit of a challenge but am getting by and will get where I need to be in time, I hope :) I had been working in biomed and clinical research, till I was laid off of that job. Figuring out where literally and figuratively I want to go next.
Have crazy dreams I really should write down and channel my creative energy into using them for work.
Laughing for hours on end for no reason. I am good with the one liners and other silly things
Talking about baseball non stop. I am a virtual encyclopedia.
Doubting myself. Making people laugh. Tripping over my own feet as though drunk although very much sober. Speaking in lyrics, movie quotes or book excerpts. Eliciting the deer in headlights look with my sarcasm. Feeling all at once 16 and 80. Throwing together a stylish ensemble. Showing off my vocabulary.
Losing myself staring at the stars/moon/ocean
running and be a fitness bad ass!
going on adventures with enthusiasm of a child
Being forgiving and kind, even when some don't deserve it
having lots of energy and living a lot "younger" than my technical age
Being a kick ass faithful friend and person. I am pretty humble but I am loyal as can be, and if you are good to me in slightest I will see you through the hardest of times.
Not sleeping and updating silly profiles like this at 2AM. sighs
Apparently when I throw my hair in a pony tail I resemble Anna from Frozen fame. HA
Fight Club. Walk The Line. Ghost World. Pretty In Pink. The Breakfast Club. Party Monster. Spiderman. Laurel Canyon. DeathProof, Breakfast at Tiffany's. X-Men. Ferris Bueller's Day Off. Spirited Away. Nightmare Before Christmas. Reality Bites. Requiem for A Dream. All of the Batman movies. A Christmas Story. Pulp Fiction. The Goonies. Neverending Story. American Pie/Wedding.. Mission Impossible. Rushmore. High Fidelity. Boondock Saints. Star Wars. Forgetting Sarah Marshall. Empire Records. I Heart Huckabees. Girls Just Wanna Have Fun. Ghostbusters. American Psycho. There's Something About Mary. A Clockwork Orange. Say Anything. Suspiria. Some Kind Of Wonderful. Little Miss Sunshine. Good Will Hunting. Can't Hardly Wait. Romy & Michelle's High School Reunion, Princess Mononoke. MILK. Anchorman. Superbad. Rum Diary.
TV: I watch and rewatch Criminal Minds almost obsessively. I think I crave the adrenaline rush. And I get to use all of my psychology and whatever else so my education wasn't a wash right? Jeopardy, Scrubs, Family Guy, and the Simpsons. Breaking Bad and Big Bang Theory also
Radiohead, Sonic Youth, Interpol, Cold War Kids, Band of Horses,The Cure, Florence + The Machine, Ferry Corsten, Archer Nation, She and Him, Sublime,The Faint, Kings of Leon, James Durbin, The Killers, Lana Del Rey, MSTRKRFT, The Chemical Brothers, Crystal Method, Kissing Club, DJ Shadow, The Smiths, Damien Rice, Neon Trees, Joy Division, Fiona Apple, Lou Reed, Shiny Toy Guns, Jeff Buckley, DMB, Muse, The Editors, The Who, MIA, Pink Floyd, Beck, Fugazi, Editors, Ryan Adams, Tin Tin Can, Mutemath, Guns N Roses, Placebo, Johnny Cash, June Carter, Fleetwood Mac, Sigur Ros, Modest Mouse, Bat for Lashes, Death Cab for Cutie, Green Day, Mumford and Sons, Metric, Pinback, Best Coast, My Bloody Valentine, Rilo Kiley, Cranes. Way too much indie 90s stuff to waste your time mentioning. Yes I wear my Gen-X cloak well
Thai food, Fresh Fruit, Japanese. In N Out now and then. Fresh Salsa, Carne Asada, Indian, Curries, omlettes, etc. I also assert that Srirachia sauce and peanut butter are food groups of their own. I am like 90% gluten free if that makes a difference, as I need to be and well it works for my active lifestyle. Sucker for a good fresh burger and blueberry pancakes as well. And sue me but McDonald's soft serve cones are one of best little things ever. That along with coffee from either Philz or Nugget Market
I love baseball and basketball Want to go to a game?
Sports in general: Teams being San Francisco Giants, Sacramento Kings and San Jose Sharks. If you are a fan of any or better yet all three let me know :D
Places I would like to visit or move to. Where time has gone. New and creative recipes for peanut butter and sriracha sauce.
What I would do in the event of the zombie or vampire apocalypse. I vote morph into a robot and marry Optimus Prime if he is still single at that point. Hey I would just be making best of a tough situation right?
Satisfying my inner adrenaline junkie-roller coasters, the tattoos, etc. etc. Yeah I have a thick skin. Takes a lot.
I have a photographic memory + journal a great deal so obviously if I like it or not I spend a lot of time thinking period
Falling in love with ficticious characters. If I could actually find a real life Spencer Reid I could die happy. Hell a weapon wielding FBI profiling genius that still has a child like quality and is cute is too much to ask right? Oh well
Watching baseball during baseball season, and obsessively missing it when it is over.
Working out/running. Beating up on the elliptical machine.
Reading and relaxing
Watching a game of some sort.
I don't like a lot of popular things such as : Sushi, girlie coffee or alcoholic drinks. I keep those last two quality but simple. I might be betraying my gender but I don't care
You can hold a conversation and make me laugh. I will gladly return the favor. I enjoy having people to talk to, that will do so more than a couple words at a time.
You write more than a generic message that lends me to think you write every single person on here, regardless if you have anything at all in common
You're a fellow runner/gym rat/someone who embraces this part of my lifestyle.
You love sports/The Giants/Sacramento Kings/San Jose Sharks as much as much as me. I am an encyclopedia of it all
You have a comfortable balance of being grounded and motivated yet still try and take time to enjoy the world with a heart of a child.
Secure/confident yet humble
I have lots of friends and such a bit younger than I am. Maybe as I am free spirited or what not. I am cool and content with that.
you're OK with space/not too clingy. I am a faithful/loyal as they come but right now, at least not right off I am so busy not in a place to spend every single spare moment with someone.
you don't have a handle or anything in your profile with likes of bae/swag/69/hotguy4U etc. Be more creative please.
What is also up with all the fakey profiles that come on here with cliche "you are most beautiful girl ever" messages that delete themselves like two days later.
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