i'm an empty essay ... fill me out! no, wait, that's what OKC said, not me. er, um, that's not right. i'm far from empty, although i like the idea that i am an essay. because you know (shhh, it's politically incorrect to say this) some people are just titles, or concepts, or ... ok, that was the end of my attempt at metaphor. (bear with me, i'm attempting this again in spite of past experience and present reservations); so goofing around seems as good a start as any.
(hey, how come there isn't a "i'm not really good at" section?)
talking to/with animals, and touching them touching me
(isn't that a song?)
give & take
(my hat size surpasses all the men in my family.)
how my highest percentiled matches are most often a decade or two younger than i. (i like making up words from other words. descriptive linguistics are the best!)
how terribly much i would love to offer my photographic services to so many people on this site.
oh and what i would add to each of those okc questions - in general though often the same thing: "it depends! and would take too much time to detail my reasonings here! and people might think me ocd for doing so! but then again, i might be thought of as shallow for not doing so on *any* of them! what's a girl to do?!"
you are open-minded/hearted. i'm not ... average ... i lived in san francisco for 25 years for good reason. in general that means i'm very progressive, experienced, adventurous, curious, interesting, and open-minded/hearted myself.
i've been in both monogamous and open/poly relationships - and still have a close friend/family-ship with my most recent ex, along with a friend who i'm also lovers with sometimes. yes it can be complicated, tricky. but i just happen to be someone who can love and/or be attracted to more than one person at a time. doesn't mean i'm fickle, a cheat, a liar, undependable, unfaithful etc. - far from as a matter of fact.
oh, and although i checked "girls who like girls", because this site doesn't allow for expanding on that i'd like to clarify that i include FTM guys in the "queer" category re: who i'm interested in right now. (just didn't want to mislead "bio-born" men by checking "guys & girls who like bi girls".) i've been missing some of the female parts of the equations (but no i don't assume FTM's consider themselves to maintain femaleness ..... OY this is hard to articulate! let's talk :)
btw, i don't know about you, but sometimes i become overwhelmed by this process of looking for connections - excited overwhelmed or anxious overwhelmed, either way. and then i might not reply to messages. it makes me feel awful, because i think it's just ... "right" ... to do so, even if to say "thanks but ... ". so please forgive me, i'm only human.
p.s. if you rated me "highly", drop a note! i'm friendly & kind at the very least :)