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misterlock

37 / M / straight / Single

Branford, Connecticut

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This is why I like making OKC Tests

My latest quiz, BTW - please try it and vote it good -was a surprise to me. I defined the 'dinner date' and expected a different outcome than I got. Women, for the most part, prefer a casual and very FUN dinner date, where many men think the romantic dinner date is the better choice. This is exactly WHY I write these tests. I Also thought women wanted the romance, when in fact, they want to PLAY and goof around more than the romance (according to the stats). Actually, I expected the opposite of the results, but - then again - the proof is in the result. That book - women are from Venus, and men are from Mars.. may be right! We think so different about the opposite sex, and we think wrong. What are your thoughts?

PS: the test is here: http://www.helloquizzy.com/tests/whats-your-perfect-dinner-date-test

Thanks for any input!!
My latest quiz, BTW - please try it and vote it good -was asurprise to me. I defined the 'dinner date' and expected adifferent outcome than I got. Women, for the most part, prefer acasual and very FUN dinner date, where many men think the romanticdinner date is the better choice. This is exactly WHY I write thesetests. I Also thought women wanted the romance, when in fact, theywant to PLAY and goof around more than the romance (according tothe stats). Actually, I expected the opposite of the results, but -then again - the proof is in the result. That book - women are fromVenus, and men are from Mars.. may be right! We think so differentabout the opposite sex, and we think wrong. What are yourthoughts?

PS: the test is here:http://www.helloquizzy.com/tests/whats-your-perfect-dinner-date-test

Thanks for any input!!
This is why I like making OKC Tests

How much to endure for the arts....

Shoot, I just learned about a HUGE sale, labor day sale, once a year, at Guitar Center. I am in the middle of starting two different bands up, as the drummer, and we desperately need more equipment. This sale is a huge one, they clear the entire floor stock out and replace it with this years models of various things. Something like 75% off everything. For what ever reason, as usual in the music field, I am the only one with a good job that makes money, and its up to me to get what we need. I don't mind buying it all, but, it won't be in my house, I have an apartment and it will all live in other peoples houses. AND, being a drummer, I am probably the most replaceable member of the band. But I am a music lover, and, I LOVE to play, it is the most theraputic thing in the world.

Those who know me best will probably laugh at me being the 'reliable and got his act together' guy out of the bunch, but, sadly, I am - big time - in both bands. Being the only non-stoner with a REAL job, I either buy everything and hope for the best, or, don't do it at all since without simple things like a mixing board for microphones, the bands can't even start out.

Now, I have gotten fucked hard like this before... no lube, not even a reach around, haha, and lost thousands of dollars in equipment. The guy's house that it lived in, he got divorced, he was the prick and got kicked out, and she sold my drum machines and keyboards that lived there. The good thing this time - they are all hopelessly single.

I am on the fence now... I really need to buy this stuff to get the ball rolling. These guys are not married, and I kind of trust them. They are total pot heads though, and a bit stupid from over use. I will get keys to their houses. But, I am about to spend a grand on equipment tomorrow and not sure if I should be the 'sugar daddy' of both bands. I know, its an art, and you have to give alot in art to get anywhere. Just, having second thoughts. ARG! I HATE having to be the responsible one.
Shoot, I just learned about a HUGE sale, labor day sale, once ayear, at Guitar Center. I am in the middle of starting twodifferent bands up, as the drummer, and we desperately need moreequipment. This sale is a huge one, they clear the entire floorstock out and replace it with this years models of various things.Something like 75% off everything. For what ever reason, as usualin the music field, I am the only one with a good job that makesmoney, and its up to me to get what we need. I don't mind buying itall, but, it won't be in my house, I have an apartment and it willall live in other peoples houses. AND, being a drummer, I amprobably the most replaceable member of the band. But I am a musiclover, and, I LOVE to play, it is the most theraputic thing in theworld.

Those who know me best will probably laugh at me being the'reliable and got his act together' guy out of the bunch, but,sadly, I am - big time - in both bands. Being the only non-stonerwith a REAL job, I either buy everything and hope for the best, or,don't do it at all since without simple things like a mixing boardfor microphones, the bands can't even start out.

Now, I have gotten fucked hard like this before... no lube, noteven a reach around, haha, and lost thousands of dollars inequipment. The guy's house that it lived in, he got divorced, hewas the prick and got kicked out, and she sold my drum machines andkeyboards that lived there. The good thing this time - they are allhopelessly single.

I am on the fence now... I really need to buy this stuff to get theball rolling. These guys are not married, and I kind of trust them.They are total pot heads though, and a bit stupid from over use. Iwill get keys to their houses. But, I am about to spend a grand onequipment tomorrow and not sure if I should be the 'sugar daddy' ofboth bands. I know, its an art, and you have to give alot in art toget anywhere. Just, having second thoughts. ARG! I HATE having tobe the responsible one.
How much to endure for the arts....

arg, I hate games...

Ever get a call from someone, and they use a different number than you've seen before - and you can't tell who they are just from their voice? My cell phone is muddy, and I can't tell who it is just from their voice, and they get all wierd when I can't tell who it is. I just got one of those calls, they wouldnt say who they were, and after a few guesses they just hung up. I HATE that! Was it a friend? A co-worker? Someone from the dart team? Someone from here? This is why I don't have a home-phone, just my cell, just one number for people to know. Everyone seems to have two or three numbers lately, I just can't keep up. Anyway, if you are from this site, and are the one who called, just let me know! I know alot of people, and my cell phone makes everyone sound like they are underwater, so dont be insulted if I couldn't tell who you were. If the call wasn't from someone one here, then oops, and take this message as a lesson not to get offended if someone can't distinguish your voice on a phone call all the time.
Ever get a call from someone, and they use a different number thanyou've seen before - and you can't tell who they are just fromtheir voice? My cell phone is muddy, and I can't tell who it isjust from their voice, and they get all wierd when I can't tell whoit is. I just got one of those calls, they wouldnt say who theywere, and after a few guesses they just hung up. I HATE that! Wasit a friend? A co-worker? Someone from the dart team? Someone fromhere? This is why I don't have a home-phone, just my cell, just onenumber for people to know. Everyone seems to have two or threenumbers lately, I just can't keep up. Anyway, if you are from thissite, and are the one who called, just let me know! I know alot ofpeople, and my cell phone makes everyone sound like they areunderwater, so dont be insulted if I couldn't tell who you were. Ifthe call wasn't from someone one here, then oops, and take thismessage as a lesson not to get offended if someone can'tdistinguish your voice on a phone call all the time.
arg, I hate games...
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