I'm polyamorous and married and queer, not bi, but OkCupid hasn't got that figured out yet so I'm rounding it off.
I can somehow manage to be both intense and awkward at the same time, but I'm self-effacing enough to pull it off (most of the time).
I like saying things in threes, but I frequently run out of examples at 2 and have to make something up to go in the third spot. This is an example of that situation.
I make decisions about the big things in life, and then follow through on them even when the consequences will be permanent and irrevocable. This can be a blessing and a curse - I Get Things Done, but I also Do Things To People.
Oh man, how do you get your profile to 1,000 words? I'm seriously having trouble saying more about myself. Maybe I should admit that I'm kinky? I'm not conflicted about it at all, but it seems like the kind of thing that can make a guy's profile go from friendly to creepy in a heartbeat. It's important to me, though, so I guess it should be out there. For those who want to know, on FetLife I'm misterzero, and I'm a pretty bad man.
Something I've realized recently is that being too laid-back doesn't get you what you want. So - if I message you, and you like the sound of me, we're going to have a talk about what you want. For real. Honest, up front, no bullshit. And if what we want is what we can give each other, then we can have a good time.
Anyway - enough about me (he said, before filling out everything else); tell me about you. I want to know! What's important to you, what makes you tick, why do you believe the things you do? How do you justify yourself, what do you do to make yourself happy, do you feel bad about yourself in the morning or does what you did the night before just seem right?
Oh, okay - last thing to say about me: I pry. I don't mean to, but it happens.
I am quiet, thoughtful, and meticulous.