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24 Brooklyn, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23–27
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 15
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Life has a lot going on right now so I check okc halfheartedly on my phone on the bus but rarely get around to using it properly. So the unread messages pile up and I doubt I'll catch up any time soon. /disclaimer

I know a lot of interesting trivia about invertebrates and have an nearly-endless supply of astonishingly bad jokes. Mostly puns. Once I get in a bookstore I can kiss the rest of the afternoon goodbye.

PGP she/her. Et tu?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Moved here from Portland, OR a couple years ago for grad school in Manhattan (building my own degree combining physiology and social justice theory). I knit, sing, and play ultimate frisbee.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creative punctuation, freestyle cooking, applied empiricism, assembling IKEA furniture in puzzle mode (ie without directions).
The first things people usually notice about me
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Curly hair, interesting glasses, biting wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Lilith's Brood (Octavia Butler), American Gods (Neil Gaiman), Fugitive Pieces (Anne Michaels), Stranger than Fiction (Chuck Palahniuk), Bel Canto (Anne Patchett), Sex Drugs and Cocoa Puffs (Chuck Klosterman).

Most recently I've read Perdido Street Station by China Mieville and Blindsight by Peter Watt and been absolutely blown away by both.

Movies: Hedwig and the Angry Inch

Shows: Buffy the Vampire Slayer will always have a place in my heart. Currently watching Leverage, Suits, and Elementary whenever I feel like/get around to a new episode. Reality cooking shows (Iron Chef etc) are great because I like to watch skilled people make excellent things (and play along with whoever I'm watching with - what would you do with banana bread and miso?).

Music: Frightened Rabbit, Tori Amos, The Dresden Dolls, The Avett Brothers
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to bring somatic/perceptual experience back into social constructivism, nearly-militant body positivity, gaze theory/textual poaching/reparative reading, intersectional feminism and how gender is done. Whether my politics are actually more radical than my looks or if I'm just kidding myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with my roommates and catching up on household to-do's, but during the rest of the week I'm a riot.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
There are quite a few things I left out to lower the number of creepy messages.

I like being the big spoon. Geographical proximity/convenience is a surprisingly important factor in my NYC dating experience.
You should message me if
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If you've read a book written by a woman in the past 6 months. If you're a feminist. If you trust in-person impressions more than profiles, messages, or algorithms - which means you'd be down with meeting up sooner rather than later, because you can't tell if you'll click from behind a computer. If you live in the city or spend your time here.

(this is not a survey you should address point by point in your message, it's just a gestalt, y'know?)