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mistressofmusic

25 Riverdale, MD Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 27–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:49pm
Orientation
Queer, Pansexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A few random, yet accurate sentences about myself...

Jersey girl, born and raised (North Jersey, the better Jersey, and none of that "fist pump, Jersey Shore" nonsense). I'm always looking for an adventure. I love performing in musical theatre. I LOVE to sing and I'm told I'm pretty good at it, but I'm very shy. You'll know I'm comfortable with you when I haphazardly sing in front of you. If you want to know how I'm feeling, listen to the words I'm singing. I'm a hopeless romantic; the little things make me giddy. I like reading...a lot. I'm (not) sorry if I ignore you in favor of a book. I'm sometimes overly sarcastic. You probably shouldn't talk to me if you get offended easily. I'm a writer. I have several (unfinished) short stories and (mostly finished) poems in my back pocket. Someday I'll put these words to music and become a super famous indie/folk musician (a girl can dream, right?) I journal regularly. I love being outside whether it's hiking through the woods, camping, or sitting in the grass with a book or my guitar. I'm a musician. Music is my life and my soul; I wouldn't be here without it. I like to be touched. And I mean that in a (sort of) innocent way; an arm around me, knees touching, holding hands. A little physical contact goes a long way. I'm fairly spiritual and have some hippie-like tendencies. I try to do things as naturally as possible and I'm fairly environment conscious. I believe in love conquering all and that people are genuinely good at heart. I'm told this is naive and unrealistic. I prefer to be an optimist despite less than ideal circumstances. I am unapologetically myself.

"And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should." -Max Ehrmann
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I currently manage a music store, which I absolutely love. I basically get to hang out with musicians and talk about music all day. Other than that, just trying to kick back and enjoy life as much as possible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Being a dork. Tripping over air. Cooking/baking. Remembering the things everyone else forgets. Giving advice. Saying what everyone is thinking and doesn't have the balls to say. Being awkward. Laughing. Finding the bright side.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told I have a really nice smile, so I guess that's something. My oh-so witty and charming personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Anything by Agatha Christie. Tuesdays with Morrie. The Hobbit/LOTR trilogy. Odd Thomas (or anything by Dean Koontz, really). Good Omens, American Gods, (Neil Gaiman/Terry Pratchett anyone?). Pride & Prejudice. Comic books. Anything by Stephen King. I once read the unabridged version of Les Miserables... I'll always have a soft spot for Harry Potter and I have a guilty pleasure for young adult books too. (See: John Green, Sarah Dessen, Suzanne Collins, Rick Riordan). If you suggest it, I will read it!

Movies: I love the classics (Casablanca, anything with Judy Garland or Fred Astaire, etc) and Disney was the main attraction during my childhood. Moulin Rouge is by far my favorite movie in the entire world. I enjoy a good chick flick, but watching things explode can be a good time too. Oh! Doctor Horrible's Sing Along Blog (show or movie? I mean, it's Joss Whedon, so either way it's amazing). Anything involving Meryl Streep, Tim Burton, or Johnny Depp is a winner in my book.

Shows: Law & Order: SVU, NCIS, Scrubs, HIMYM, Modern Family, New Girl, Doctor Who, Sherlock, Dexter, House of Cards, OITNB, Arrested Development. Anything you can find on Netflix; it's probably the best $8 a month I'll ever spend.

Oh and I'll proudly cheer on the Packers during football season.

Music: I have a really eclectic iTunes library ranging from classical to Broadway show tunes, jazz to hip hop/r&b. Classic rock. All kinds of stuff.

Food: Coffee is a major food group in my book. I'll try anything, but if it's something crazy, tell me what it is AFTER I've eaten it. I don't share my kitchen very well, but I'm willing to try.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music
Coffee
Good drinks with good company
Books
Time spent outside
A pen and paper

This is of course aside from the obvious things like air and all that snarky stuff people usually put in here.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A variety of things. I love having spur of the moment "life chats" that last for hours on end. Expand my world! Make me think! Tell me something that will completely alter my perspective. Force me to have an existential crisis; I welcome these things. I'm always trying to find ways to break the barriers and do something new. I love getting into debates over just about anything or talking about generally random things.

I'm also really curious about how people work...what makes them tick, why they act the way they do. Maybe that's creepy, but I just find people fascinating.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with friends or relaxing in my apartment with a glass of wine and a good book. Possibly working. Whatever the case, a good time is being had.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a mild anxiety disorder and I occasionally have anxiety/panic attacks (though not nearly as often as I used to). I actually just completed 6 months of therapy because I decided waking up in the morning feeling anxious was no longer acceptable and I've worked my ass off to fix it and improve myself. I'm really open about it, so feel free to ask any questions you might have. And honestly, if this is an issue for you, probably best you shouldn't message me.

I have a strange love affair with pans. 'Cause that's what pansexual is, right?

I have a (more than) slight addiction to coffee.

As a side note, I'll answer almost any questions you could throw at me. I don't get offended easily.
You should message me if
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-You think we'd get along! I just moved to the area and I'm always looking to meet people
-You don't have a problem with girls who know what they want and won't accept anything less
-You're looking for a drinking buddy or someone to grab a cup of coffee with
-You can introduce me to a new seasonal beer
-You can recommend a book or movie that I MUST read/watch
-You're bored and looking for a random person to talk to
-You enjoy the outdoors and wouldn't mind a walk/hike/picnic/other outdoorsy things

I'd actually like to meet people and get to know the DC area, so if you have suggestions for places I should go, feel free to impart this knowledge on me!