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30 Lake Stevens, WA Man, Cis Man

Man, Cis Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Yesterday – 11:07pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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ich heiße Mitchel,

I'd like to think I'm the renaissance man by having interests in art, SCIENCE, music, philosophy, literature, poetry, and dance. My ideal day is starting some activity in the mountains like hiking or snowboarding and ending it in the city with a laser show or ballet or show and drinks. I drive ... and pollute. I'm shrewd and direct and some are intimidated by that. GGG. I practice vipassana meditation.

Qualities I value: kindness, honesty, a drive to explore, and those who critique themselves.

ENTJ. The natural born leader stuff is a bit overblown but otherwise this definition is uncomfortably accurate.

I'm blood type O-neg, which is obviously the most important thing to know about me. I'm also the mid kid and orange is my favorite color.
What I’m doing with my life
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I graduated from SU Law in May, and I'm working at a small civil litigation firm drafting appellate briefs in foreclosure defense. I plan to take the Washington bar in February.

I recently joined the Seattle Bouldering Project (my fingers!) and am reading the Uplift science fiction series.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
debating and arguing, um duh! I used to drive for UPS so I'm really good with addresses and directions.

I make friends quickly in new environments and am decent at relieving awkward situations
The first things people usually notice about me
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Beard and/or smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books & Authors: Neil Gaiman, Haruki Murakami, The Great Hunt, We (translated by Natasha Randall), Shantaram, The Denial of Death, Alexandra Kollontai, The Miracle of Mindfulness, Ursula K. Le Guin,

Movies: Death to Smoochy, V for Vendetta, Lone Wolf & Cub, Miyazaki Films, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Baraka, The Great Escape, Dr. Strangelove, Hook, MST3k/Rifftrax, Contact,

Music: KEXP, Tim Minchin, Dr. Dre, Chvrches, Wilco, Muse, Dire Straits, Radiohead, Primus, Tool, Rancid, Metric, Queen, Bowie, Smokey Robinson, Rush, Flaming Lips! Citizen Cope ... us white guys aren't exposed to enough female vocalists, so I try to balance that out where I can. Have any recommendations?

Food: Mexican, Thai, Greek, Chinese, sushi, Trinidadian (Pam's on the Ave), whisky - despite my best efforts I still don't like olives
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
non-essential list:
clean socks
guitar tuner
floss (I'm known as a notorious flosser to my friends)
Hot sauce (Frank's Extra Hot, Sriracha, Tapatio)
meditation cushion
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think very much in the moment, but sometimes I daydream about my future. As a professional hazard, I think about the law and do a lot of legal analysis, but the law is just one part of me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends, going to the bar. Hopefully I can move back to Seattle soon and spend time at my favorite haunts.

On Sundays it's board game and dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've done three 10-day silent meditation retreats. At the end of my first retreat, my roommate told me that I shouted out "BOOTY!" in my sleep. My second retreat, I was half awake and unintentionally spoke out loud, "It's a damn conspiracy," and my roommate immediately responded, "I totally agree." I guess he and I were on the same wavelength.

When I'm stressed I sometimes drink scotch and build a lego.
You should message me if
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any multiples of the following ...
are easy to laugh and smile,
have somewhat of a thick skin,
and you aren't a religious fundy,
you meditate! (not mandatory)

I don't expect every date or contact to become a relationship but I do expect those who contact me to be open to the possibility. Let's just have fun and see what happens. Also, I distinguish between "short-term dating" and "casual sex."

Pro tip: Don't ask new lawyers what area of law they want to practice.

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