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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Oct 27, 2013
Asian, White
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), C++ (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a collector of facts and knowledge, which once made me an insufferable know-it-all, but am now a purveyor of answers and wisdom--I will make a great village elder some day. I have been gifted with a dry, sarcastic sense of humor and a quick wit--the sass is just part of my charm, not knowing when to turn it off is the burden I carry.

I am SoCal born and raised and only recently have I come to appreciate what that means. There are many places across the States and throughout the World that I love to visit and may end up moving to should the opportunity arise, but I think I'll always call SoCal home.

I am a thinker first, and a doer second. This means that I am not what most people know as 'spontaneous'. It also means that when I decide to act, my mind has already been made up and I will follow through with my actions--I am not easily dissuaded. It has been a blessing and a curse throughout my life, but I am steadily learning that my mind knows what's best and at times I should just act on instinct (not impulse) rather than trying to reason through to an unknowable conclusion.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm in the process of figuring this out. While this is usually code for 'unemployed', I am happy to say that I have been, and continue to be gainfully employed by a great company. I spent the last 5 years as an accountant, but my focus has slowly evolved away from schedules and expense reimbursements to performance measurement & financial reporting, with a sprinkling of networking and programming. The important thing to take away from this is my company is paying me to learn lots of new things and I am very happy for this.

Outside of work, I spend most of my time training Olympic weightlifting or otherwise staying active and/or outdoors. I try to maintain my geek cred by staying current on new video games and technology, though I seem to be coming up short on time to play with them. This could be due to my preference to be nose-deep in a book rather than glued to my computer during my free time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making complicated things easy to understand and vice versa.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Right now? My mustache. It's nothing extravagant or trendy. Just your standard copstash. I should probably get a pair of aviators...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books/Reading - The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul (Douglas Adams), Without Remorse (Tom Clancy), all 5 of the original books in the Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy trilogy (I'm reading the 6th book written by Eoin Colfer). Other favored reading includes: Harvard Business Review, The Economist, Car and Driver, Wired, and reddit (which isn't a book/magazine, but is the source of a major part of my reading now-a-days)

Webcomics - XKCD, Questionable Content, PHD Comics, Abstruse Goose, Manly Guys Doing Manly Things, Dilbert, The Whiteboard.

Movies - LA Confidential, Lions For Lambs, The Shawshank Redemption, Good Will Hunting, The Fifth Element, Wall-E, V For Vendetta, Last of the Mohicans, The Count of Monte Cristo (new one), The 13th Warrior, Finding Forester, Taken

Music - I love electronic dance music (EDM). My favorite DJs at the moment are Netsky, Danny Byrd, Nero, Magentic Man, Sub Focus, Drumsound & Baseline Smith, Paul Van Dyk, Above and Beyond, Armin Van Buuren, and Pendulum. As diverse as EDM is, I still like "traditional" genres of music. Some of my other favorite artists are Metallica (pre-Load), Megadeth, Fear Factory, All That Remains, Incubus, 30 Seconds to Mars, Gorillaz, System of a Down, and Origa.

Food - I love bad food. Or rather, I love tasty food that's bad for me. I'm especially partial to maple bars, corn dogs, chili cheese fries w/ raw onions, chicken fried steak & sausage gravy, and ice cream/frozen yogurt. Though for the most part, I eat wholesome foods because bad food makes you feel bad and food is energy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My mind and able body
My gym
Un/productive endeavors
Un/friendly competition
Un/reachable goals
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think a lot about what my next move in life should be. While I'm happy with my life, I'd be selling myself short if I mistook complacency for contentment. Who doesn't want a life s/he can be content with? I don't want to rule the world (yet), I just want to be happy with the part I exist in--and not because I decide "being happy" is easier than working my ass off to be happy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday night is a training night. This is followed by a big, tasty dinner and then lots of food-coma-induced sleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't, nor have I ever owned a smart phone. As much as I'd love to have the net at my fingertips wherever I am, I feel the need to unplug sometimes--having it available 24/7 would not be conducive to my productivity in life. It's not that private as I don't intentionally hide it, but it's an assumption about me most people have that they don't believe.
You should message me if
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I am looking for people with an active lifestyle--whether it's running, backpacking, climbing, gymnastics, martial arts or Olympic weightlifting. Being active is a very important part of my life and I'd love to meet new people who feel likewise.

As far as a partner is concerned, I am looking for someone who is happy with where they are at in life. I'm a fairly independent person that needs a decent amount of me time, so I am looking for someone who can function equally as well on their own. Definite plus if you can squat 1.5x body weight (full ROM).