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42 M Oakland, CA

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Last Online
Today – 9:42am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I like to push myself both intellectually and physically.

I'm half power nerd and half bad mambajamba.

I love to travel. I've been fortunate to see most of this country--by motorcycle, automobile, and most recently bicycle--and to visit many others.

I was a rock and roll star in my own mind when I was younger, although I did get to tour and play in front of thousands. I still play and record music.

I have a very loud laugh and I'm not afraid to use it.

I am a tee shirt and jeans guy, but I clean up real nice.

I am looking for a partner in crime.

I am not good at describing myself in a list of three items.
What I’m doing with my life
Working hard, playing hard.

I recently moved back to the Bay Area after completing a 13-year academic journey that's taken me from community college to UC Berkeley to MIT for an engineering PhD (I dropped out of high school--but that's a whole different story).

Refusing to work for anyone else ever again; I am a cofounder of a tech startup.
I’m really good at
Anything I devote myself to learning. Working hard. Playing hard. Laughing at myself and others when we take ourselves too seriously.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: "Genius," by Gleick about the life and times of the late great physicist Richard Feynman; "Burst," by Barabasi about the activity patterns underlying human behavior; The Feynman lectures on Physics; any and all biographies about interesting people.

Movies: pretty much anything by wes anderson, david lynch, david fincher, terry gilliam, dario argento, the coen brothers, ron howard, coppola--francis ford and sophia, peter jackson, wim wenders etc. I am a sucker for cheesy science fiction (tron, flash gordon), pee-your-pants comedies (think office space), and documentaries.

TV: Dexter, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, (I did say half-power nerd did I not?) Mad Men, House of Lies, Californication

Food: yes please.

I am music obsessed. A day in the life might include songs by blonde redhead, wolf parade, phillip glass, david bowie, pj harvey, nick cave and the bad seeds, the birthday party, roland s. howard, neko case, nina simone, crime and the city solution, johnny cash, bob dylan, new york dolls, old motley crue, isan, gbh, the clash, elliot smith, nick drake, david bowie, neutral milk hotel, circle jerks, kyuss, rolling stones, wilco, pixies, marvin gaye, arvo part, the cure, queen, acdc, jane's addiction, talking heads, bach, rachels, and on and on....
The six things I could never do without
my mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
math, music, my affinity for uncertainty, data and how to visualize it to tell a story,
how to use technology to change the world, how to better myself and what my next adventure will be.
On a typical Friday night I am
I hope not one minute of my life is typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am gregarious to hide the fact that I'm actually quite shy.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're independent but are looking for a partner in crime.