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mittenman

37 / M / straight / Single

Portland, Oregon

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Korean (Poorly)

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I am obsequious, purple, and clairvoyant.

My Self-Summary

Well, where shall we begin? I enjoy cooking, eating, traveling, and most of life's pleasures. I care about world events, and try to stay aware as a voter, a consumer, and as a human being. I have been self-employed since I was 17, and take great pride in my work. I'm very good with children. I love animals. I can be very romantic if I really like you! I'm in good shape physically. I love movies, especially good documentaries. I read some, but I should definitely read more. Nobody can make a dish spicy enough for me ... um ... I don't like cottage cheese. What else? Oh, and I've never been convicted of a felony :-)

What I’m doing with my life

I'm running my business, still playing live onstage when I can fit it in, traveling, raising my wonderful little boy, and trying to find you ... whoever you are.

I’m really good at

... completing pre-formatted questions online. It brings out the inner-me!

I would say that generally I am very good with kids, a very good cook, good at poker and games in general, good at lifting heavy objects, good at sticking up for myself and for anyone in a moment of need, a very good listener (what did you just say?), good at staying calm in an emergency, extremely good at drinking IPAs, good with setting goals and sometimes even achieving them, good with my hands, and good at listing things.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm a pretty outgoing "A type" person I think. I imagine they notice this right off the bat. Unless they are A+, in which case they probably think I'm a follower.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

BOOKS:
- Anthem, Ayn Rand
- 1984, George Orwell, AKA: Eric Blair (There's a theme here)
- My Life, Bill Clinton (super interesting)
- The World is Flat, Tom Friedman
- Me Talk Pretty One Day, David Sedaris
- Naked in Baghdad, Anne Garrels
- Cruel Shoes, Steve Martin

MOVIES:
- Dr. Strangelove, 2001, or anything directed by Stanley Kubrick.
- The Fog of War, The Thin Blue Line, and other Errol Morris films
- Any of the early Woody Allen movies. Love Annie Hall.
- Amelie, City of Lost Children, and Jean-Pierre Jeunet's best I think: Delicatessen.
- Pretty much any Coen Bros flick ... You betcha.
- Do the Right Thing
- Many of the movie-snob classics, like NXNW, The 400 Blows, The Bicycle Thief, Kane, The 7th Seal, Wild Strawberries, on and on and blah blah blah :)
- Quirky and lesser-known movies like Big Night, Y tu Mamá También (super hot), The Princess and the Warrior, Waking Ned Devine, Secret Ballot, and some movie called Star Wars I think it was ... not sure ... I can't remember the details, but there was a gay robot, and a lady with buns stuck to the side of her head.
- Goodfellas ... best mob movie ever, and one of the best food-films too.
- All the great 80s comedies. Vacation, Caddy Shack, Airplane!
- Have I bored you yet? Wait wait ... come back ... There's more!

MUSIC:
Subject to change without notice.

FOOD:
Northern Italian, Lebanese, Thai, Vietnamese, A Great Cheeseburger, and almost anything else really.

The six things I could never do without

- The friends and family I love and trust
- My passion for food
- Lust, love, and passion for anything the world has to offer
- A drive to learn and expand my horizons
- A healthy skepticism, balanced with optimism, balanced on my head.
- My little boy
- Exceeding the 6 item limit

I spend a lot of time thinking about

... planning my next big adventure.

On a typical Friday night I am

No two Friday nights are the same in my life. I may be overseas working on a show, at home reading a book with my boy, looking for a new favorite restaurant, or trolling for girls on the internet ... just kidding! I do that on Monday morning.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I've always wanted a circular bed. Does this make me a weirdo? I think I'll get one anyway, what the hell.

You should message me if

... you are ready for the ride of your life! Or you would just like to have a pleasant chat.