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45 Pasadena, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:27am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Graduated from med school
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Latin (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm a 49 y.o. physician looking for a kind, intelligent, gainfully employed woman 33-46 for a long term relationship. I'm down to earth and you should be too. I'm generally most attracted to slim/slender women (that live locally!) without kids.....also, be advised that while I like (some) kids, I'm not planning on having any. If you asked mother earth, the very last thing she'd tell you she wants is another human baby. I think it's on the list right after another Olive Garden. Or another Republican administration...I can't remember which.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm doing what everyone should be doing: trying to live my life the best way I can and make sound choices. I'm quite cynical about humanity but that doesn't stop me from trying to help people on an individual to a global level.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
not finding a girlfriend on OKC
The first things people usually notice about me
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hominid with opposable thumbs
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Mandel: Textbook of Infectious Diseases, H.P. Lovecraft, Doctor Zhivago, Imogen Heap and/or Frou Frou, or Glenn Gould playing anything by Bach, Baroque music on harpsichord or organ- particularly Johann Caspar Ferdinand Fischer, Italian food...pretty much Italian anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Italian cars, Spanish motorcycles, a lot of metric wrenches, my Mason & Hamlin AAs, my mom, escaping from LA on weekends.


I'm trying to educate and motivate the local community about bark beetle and other pine tree pests that are devastating the forest. Please have a look at my facebook page and "like" it and share it with whomever you want. I need to get more traffic on it to make the local government aware that people are watching and paying attention!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why so many women on OKC are alexic? I have about a 5% response rate to the women I've written to. I'm a decent guy, not particularly decrepit for my age, decent looking, make decent money, own my own house, don't have any addictions and yet 95% of women I've written to completely ignore me. Zilch, nothing, nada. It's true that I don't have a white horse right now, but I actually probably will someday. I don't dare conclude that I'm so inconsequential, hideous, and leprous that I'm beneath even warranting a polite response, I prefer to think that women in the greater Los Angeles area have been afflicted with a bizarre virus that results in alexia, aphasia and selective mutism. Either that or everyone looking for love on OKC is a rude social misfit with completely unrealistic expectations. That can't be the case....right? Wait a minute, what did you say? It's not the virus thing? mean that actually IS the case????? Oh. Well, at least I'm not paying to be insulted, like I am on match. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Escaping from LA- driving to my place in the mountains.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have all seven seasons of the Gilmore Girls on DVD.
You should message me if
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