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mixdr09

32 / M / straight / Single

Riverside, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English

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I am puppydogs, ............., and ice cream.

My Self-Summary

I am unfailingly honest, totally loyal, dependable to a fault, and fairly intelligent. I rock at life. I don't lie. I don't play games. I'm actually hoping to find a relationship. I don't look for love by throwing myself into fleeting sexual relationships hoping that one will stick....

I really hope to find someone who feels the same way I do. This is my second profile on the OKC, I was actually attempting to delete this second less completion percentage version when I didn't realize I was logged into the original. So that means I've got to take a whole bunch of questions and quizzes over again. Oh well, it's kinda fun, and who knows maybe my perspectives have changed since i started the OG OKC account. still it's kinda a pain in the butt. =(

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a single dad, and it's harder than you might think. There are a lot of stereotypes about single mom's that i try to avoid becoming. My kid is the bomb, loving and cuter than all get-out. Other than that, I work, I play, I'm a typical guy (sports, gaming, music, movies etc...)

I once had aspirations of being a rockstar and have been in many different types of bands, some of which were borderline successful, but sooner or later life puts you where you're supposed to be. And that's perfectly normal. I strongly believe that wherever you are right now, is where you're supposed to be. In other words: "There will be water if God wills it"

I’m really good at

overestimating your attractiveness in an online photo....(well that sounds douchebagish) but seriously the whole "MYSPACE ANGLE" thing is very deceiving.

I cook (really well but not as often as I used to)

I do music (play 7 instruments but only three really well)

I read a lot (of everything)

I'm notorious for finding cute clothes for women (i swear I'm heterosexual; sorry fellas)

The first things people usually notice about me

my six pack abs and rockin ass......okay that was a fib....i blend.....i shoulda gone to work for the CIA....average height weight hair color.....i could be very good at clandestine operations....

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

most rock from the past 40 years, some country, some ubiquitous top 40 that you can't avoid.....

i'd rather watch a comedy or (sadly) a rom-com than anything "scary"

i read a lot of different stuff

i eat everything except for sushi

The six things I could never do without

I'm pretty sure i could get by without a lot of things, but I don't want to live without:(in no particular order)

the conveniences of the techno age (text messaging, online banking, tivo, etc....)

beer

the love of my truly awesome friends (most of whom happen to be female)

music

talkradio

I spend a lot of time thinking about

how the phenomenon of the Hot Girl w/Douchebags ratio continues to grow with such rampant speed.

On a typical Friday night I am

at home.....Saturdays are better for me

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i hate this web dating thing, but still hold out hope, i mean i don't want to meet a bar skank and being a busy, albeit struggling adult where else should i look?

You should message me if

you're not a bitch....and you're not full of shit. I'm just sayin'