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41 M Petaluma, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 7
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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What I’m doing with my life
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I am going deeper.

My work is tremendously satisfying. I play with sound and images.

Two of the following are true:

1. I have been nominated for an Oscar
2. I have shaken hands with Queen Sirikit of Thailand
3. Francis Coppola once made me a latte while flying in his private jet.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing at being creative.

Conversation. Listening.

Figuring things out.

Running with scissors.

I'm getting better at breathing. Thought I had it all figured out. Seemed automatic for a while. Turns out it's more complex than that.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am a Jedi Knight....sooooooo, probably my light saber.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Frankenstein, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time, My Stroke of Insight, The Monster Loves His Labyrinth, Science Order and Creativity, the poetry of Rilke, and the Collected Works of Dr. Seuss.

Movies: The Conversation, Let the Right One In, Wings of Desire, The Spirit of the Beehive. And anything from Kieslowski or Bergman. Just saw Pina and it was fantastic.

Music: Over The Rhine, Bon Iver, Gillian Welch, Katie Herzig, Rachael Yamagata, Tom Waits, Arvo Part, Bonnie "Prince" Billy, Osvaldo Golijov, The Cure, Jolie Holland, Josh Ritter, Regina Spektor, Sean Hayes, Son Lux, Zbigniew Preisner.

Food: Fresh, local, and spicy!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Hearing
2. Touch
3. Taste
4. Sight
5. Smell

In that order. (though I understand that taste and smell are closely related, so that may be hard to parse)

6. Also, The Collected Works of Dr. Seuss.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Creativity. I'm fascinated with creative expression in all forms.

Curiosity drives me.

Lately I've been paying attention to where and how I feel emotion in my body.

Thoughts on romance: We have inherited many stories. The goal is not to repeat them, but to make them ours, and in doing so, renew them. I think romance is fiction. A relationship is a creative collaboration on this fiction. If we write a really good fiction, it becomes true. I am a pragmatist. I am a romantic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading the Collected Works of Dr. Seuss.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I hate Dr. Seuss.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You sing like an angel...or a devil, or are not afraid to try.

You don't easily fit in a category, and are not too quick to categorize.

PS. The whole Dr. Seuss thing was a joke. If you didn't get it, you probably shouldn't message me. I mean really, who hates Dr. Seuss?