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52 Castro Valley, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:46pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Catholicism but it’s not important
Has kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First-I'd like to say I'm only interested in meeting, talking, chatting with someone within 40 miles from the SF Bay Area. So thank you for your interest but if you're on the east coast or in another country, I'm not going to respond because there's no real point.
Right off the bat-Things I don't like-Pierced ears on guys...that era ended a long time ago. Lots of Tattoos. Clear clean Skin is beautiful...
I'm an Italian girl from the suburbs of Buffalo...I Went to design school in NYC where I lived for 9 yrs. Came to SF and then bought a house in the E Bay. I own my own successful design business, I'm a f/t single mom. I love what I do! I have a lot going on and I work too much which is why I'm here. I'm looking for someone attractive (to me), fit, healthy, funny (there's nothing more attractive than a man with a great sense of humor). I hope to meet my best friend, and companion, someone I want to be with more and more as we get to know each other. Probably better if you have a kid or two, because you will understand the priorities and limitations of parenthood and understand at first my time will be limited until we realize we're 'good' together. Then I can make more time. Trust is extremely important.

I love to try new places, get out, travel, etc. I like to be active, but haven't been in the workout scene for a few years. Something had to give but it is on my list to get back to soon. I just feel better when I'm exercising.

I'm very domestic, love to cook, work in the garden. But want to be able to chill, see a movie, go out to dinner and enjoy some romantic time with someone special.

Please don't disappoint...If I say hello, then there's something about you that caught my interest...maybe give it a try to at least chat a bit. I don't often put myself out there...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I admit...I work a lot. Having your own biz means all hours there's something that has to be done. When I'm not working, i'm a soccer mom, doing household chores, walking my dogs, etc...
BUT, I'm over it! I want someone to have fun with!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being real. I'm often told I'm easy to talk to and that I'm down to earth. I'm from NY so we pretty much say what we think although I do it with tact : ) I hope I'm good at being a good friend and good Mom.
Making you feel comfortable, and happy I hope!

At the same time, I'm not perfect ...still a work in progress.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes and my skin. I always get compliments on my skin which seems like an odd thing...but I'll take it : )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like to read novels when I have time. Movies- I love to laugh out loud, I love thoughtful, clever movies. I love to see live theater, dance, etc. Food...well, I'm Italian. I really like food. Chocolate is my constant. I love to dance. Not that I would do it often but I do love to dance when there's a wedding or event.

Music-listen to Alice radio, and Jazz 91.1, Love the Jazz Standards, Amy Winehouse, Adele, Bruno Mars, Buble, Beyonce, Pink, Adam Levine, etc. Up beat, soulful, make me happy...

Recent movies- Les Mis (LOVED it), Silver Linings PB...anything that makes me laugh or feel something
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kid, My dogs, My phone, My computer, My house and garden, My friends/family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How am i going to get everything done?

Recently about age... I don't care how old you are but I'm much more attracted to someone fit and youthful. In the past I have dated younger guys, but not more than 10yrs...

why do so many guys post photos with no shirts? I HATE THAT! Please keep your shirt on if you want to meet someone with substance.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Meeting friends with kids for dinner or just hanging out relaxing from the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Nothing. You'd need to get to know me first...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want to learn more and think we'd be a good match.
Someone who won't be put off that I'm a single Mom... I do want someone special in my life.

My photos are current...