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34 M Rochester, NY

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Today – 12:26am
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Well, the screen name pretty much says it all, and yes, that is my license plate as well, although unreadably modified. No, should already be shot for using it here.

Anyhow, I'm a saxophonist and music professor. Having a career in music certainly comes with its sacrifices. For instance, you end up spending a lot of time listening to music as opposed to reading. Encouraging, I know. But I still consider myself fairly well-rounded.
What I’m doing with my life
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I teach jazz studies and music theory and try to play out as much as I can. I play in a good local salsa band and in a classical saxophone quartet that does higher profile gigs from time to time. I also play in different incarnations of a jazz combo.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Spending money.

Fucking up my next day by staying up too late for completely no reason. And then doing the same thing every other night of that week or maybe month. Doin' it right now, in fact.
The first things people usually notice about me
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It really depends; women in their 60's think I'm Fabio, and frat boys wanna kick my ass. Different people notice different things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Directors: Lynch, Kubrick, Goddard, Bunuel, Almodivar, Cronenberg (earlier stuff). This is the type of list that a film scholar would probably find particularly odious.

Movies: Jaws, Rocky IV; Point Break is a true classic. Mullholand Drive, A Clockwork Orange, the Shining, Existenz; Mo Betta Blues and Do the Right Thing. Possibly my all time favorite is Belle de Jour. Made in USA (Goddard) is also an incredible film.

Books: Camus, Burroughs, Henry Miller, Kurt Vonnegut, Flannery O'Connor. I enjoyed Shakespeare in the past but can't say that I spend much time with his stuff anymore, haha. Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man, Invisible Man, Crime and Punishment, Howl, the Bell Jar. Not much contemporary stuff, I guess. The Stranger is my favorite novel so far. Currently I'm trying to get through Kafka's the Trial. I also pick up Andrew Weil's books sometimes for whatever reason, but self-help books are kind of a different beast, I suppose.

Comedians: George Carlin, Sarah Silverman, Chris Elliot. David Cross is my favorite (although I will admit that he's kind of an asshole).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Turnip cakes from Flavors of Asia.

2. Puppies. Only the concept of them though. Not responsible enough to own one

3. Parole. Oh snap...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Conspiracy theories. Whether I should move to a different city for its music scene. The rate of change of the information revolution as compared to previous technological revolutions, and its impacts (if you didn't laugh at that, btw, you should definitely message me). Music; sometimes pretty shitty pop songs like "she blinded me with science". I contend that I'm not an idiot, but it would be hard to imagine given this fact about me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out with a couple dude dudes, or maybe staying in and ordering a pizza or something extremely exciting like that. I seem to be drinking very little these days, but who knows. I'm flexible, haha.