Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


46 Newbury, UK Man


Similar users

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 21, 2013
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Has kid(s) and might want more
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I think perhaps a revamp is in order here as this profile is becoming a bit of a novel.

I think we all agree that this part of the site is often the most challenging as you want to give a good account of yourself without posing the question “If this person is such a great, attractive, humorous, kind, loving, romantic and just all round great person, then why are they still single?” You know you have asked that…..

I am balanced enough to know who I am, I don’t need to re-live my youth, I am comfortable with me and really would like the same. That is not to say I am dull and boring, no no no.

I like to laugh and make people laugh (not like a stand up comic or anything); I’m not grumpy in the morning and have all my own teeth (you see a very good order of affairs here).

I am fortunate enough to have grown up in Africa and as such people have said I sound posh…..I don’t “sound” posh, I “am” posh (and that ladies is a poor attempt at bad humour). But for the record I am educated, articulate and good company.

I am more a lover of warmer climates rather than chilly (odd that). I am spontaneous, will make you laugh; will make you cry, will fill you with joy, fill you with frustration but will always be interesting.

I am looking for an equal in life, someone who has a little go in them. I am looking for a relationship not just a play mate. I believe in honesty and am pretty open.

If any of this intrigues you in any way then I would love to hear from you.

Just as a parting shot, if you don't have a picture then there is no point in winking or writing to me. It is a dating site and while personality is hugely important, you have to have an initial physical attraction too.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying my own company. Developing my career slowly but surely. Loving my children.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Photography, music, being me
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You know I can't say I have asked them but I think perhaps my perceived confidence and humour. Having said that I am going to ask now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books probably Tom Clancy, Movies, I have a preference towards comedy and food mmmmm Lamb and curry or both combined.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Children, Music, Me, My Camera, My Freedom, Air
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Making a success of what I do...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either with my children or with a good bottle of red wine listening to music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Meet me, know me, ask me
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like what you see.........or read.