Also, I am lovely. If I write to you, the message isn't going to contain things like 'hi u are sexy' or 'hey u iz fit. wana fúçk?'... How guys actually think that a woman appreciates messages like that is beyond me. Plus, I am aware the site often matches people up with partners whom you might never fancy in a million years... if I message you and it turns out you aren't interested, a reply saying something to the tune of "I appreciate your interest, but sadly I'm not interested in you" goes down much better than being completely ignored. I'm sure you would agree.
Plus, I am aware that a lot of the women I'm matched with here live a distance away, that doesn't bother me! I drive and am more than happy to travel to meet a potential partner if we hit it off well enough here.