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mlvirgilio

34 San Francisco, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 27
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer
Education
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Okay), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
---hello-------------!
---------------------i will admit that im intense...im also really nice!
also i made this a long time ago---maybe i ought to reedit....its almost like a blog for my subconcsious at this point--i have been single for almost 3 years----and its not that im not good looking and not fit---its that i have a terrible personality---ha ha ha ha hah a ha h---im skeptical at best of meeting someone online ill admit it-----it seems to me like people in the city spend more time looking at their stupid phones than actually look around them at the beautiful people in the same room....are we so afraid to talk to eachother and just meet more naturally?----
one could argue that the internet is natural, so i get that too......whatever....
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????????books-art-films-music-nature-food-cooking-people-traveling-holidays-museums-talking-philosophizing-sleeping-doing laundry-hiking-animals-friends-doing things-thinking about doing things and thinking about not doing things and not doing them too
drawing--working--- staying at home----going out sometimes..............................taking drugs---going on the wagon
saving money---spending money
fun times in the kitchen-sleeping-jump rope-
hats...................shows
dont have a car---but know how to get one
dont have a smart phone- got a computer at home
bike-skateboard-walking-bus-train-flying
totally down with chard-kale-spinach-beets-shallots-squash-rice---etc....though when traveling i cook and eat less and supplement meals with beer and coffee
piano
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happy/excited about----music other people make--art i make---homemade food we all make----crafts----the outdoors--working---saving up for trips-------haircuts--------the impermanence of moments and memories-------the forward moving cosmos------------------------------etc!
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the big interest------dynamics in romance and friendship with the opposite sex---------love and sex and love and sex and love and sex
i genuinely have no interest in drama and games
ive been in 2 long term relationships---one 5 years one 6 years and had a 4 month international long distance relationship as well--------i know how to treat people very well....quality not quantity is kinda how i roll -- i dont have to date multiple people at a time...but the challenge is out there i guess for people who need attention like that---------im more concerned with inner happiness than anything....
it would be nice to exchange affection ....its nice.
ive been to school-been all over europe-been to a million concerts-lived in the country-lived in the city-read books-cooked food-been in bands-made art-been all over the states--hiking-biking....etc.....what else is there?----yea making out would be nice---makes all the other things glow more.
i can do a lot by myself, but id like a lover/friend/companion who is a girl----im straight.
i want to experiment.im an artist.
also part of the reason im trying this site is to get to know myself----if i get no dates from it, ill still learn something
................im used to being alone-----its been 3 years since ive had a girlfriend.......but i have many sisters
lets be friends anyway
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
working mostly and saving------art/travel.
reading writing playing music drawing---going to shows--drinking coffee and water and wine and beer and scotch-working
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doing something everyday---i treat san francisco like im a tourist----
i wanna do it all-----cable cars---legion of honor---you name it--
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working on massive life 's work---art and writing mostly---some music----postcards etc......
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being myself
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my unique disposition and enthusiasm--personal style
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
---yeah---lots of these...more than enough really
not quite into shows(tv)or even really ready to be---but know a bunch of people are and thats just fine---i like jeopardy---thats a good show!
books---i got a library---alice in wonderland or clockwork orange or bible commentary-----childrens books/philosophy mainly............some novels.....?
taoism-art-marry poppins-music
---music?...concert tickets piling up.....burried in records and tapes..........
i like music that inspires me----that is the only criteria....
hawkwind-rossini-tchaikovsky-handel.......tool--ballet--kraftwerk.......s.youth
king crimson-wolf parade-secret chiefs 3-mazzy star-beach house-doors-velvets-spiritualized-broadcast-pumpkins-floyd-fleetwood mac-my bloody valentine-janis-hendrix-radiohead-lips-beethoven-neutral milk hotel-coltrane-john and yoko-sonic youth-nin-tori-sunn-kate bush-rufus wainwright-m.mouse-l.cohen-v.weekend-dylan-stones-a.fire-autechre-plaid-the orb-john zorn-godspeed-nurse with wound-magnetic fields-galaxie 500-eno-fripp and eno--bowie-t.heads-camper van beethoven-cracker-lee scratch perry-bjork-enya-luna-g.dead-moody blues-weird al-blur-joy division-merzbow-lee ranaldo-silver mt. zion-do make say think-outkast-congos-ween-wilco-yeah yeah yeahs-sun city girls-fantomas-madonna-tricky-massive attack-mozart-bach-etc....!!!--------the list goes on.....i also play piano and guitar and drums and a little clarinet and am an aspiring balilaika master
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films-s.kubrik ,hitchcock, terry gilliam-wes anderson----art films---foreign--black and white--color-----in that vein---classics---yeah i like the goonies and princess bride too...
food----i know what is good----do you?---i eat well and know how to cook......happy with all vegetarian/vegan food---organic--local honey-----etc....u know?----i understand the need for a good hamburger or oyster bash
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
never say never.....never--------never
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what im doing this week

projects

sex and relationships and being alone and being happy and what museum or concert or travel destination to go to next
and how to flirt without being weird and how to be confident without being insensitive.....
and how i would spend the rest of my life alone---total freedom
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working-----for now
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
----im so happy being alone, i wonder why i would ever want someone to share it with----but the truth is i love people and couldn't live without them
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
wanna go to the de young?legion of honor?asian art museum?---etc----i go all the time
opera?ballet?symphony?
wanna walk around?---i live close to things--ocean---presido---ggate park?
wanna bike somewhere?
wanna eat?---i eat a lot less than i used to, but better
coffee?----all day with water and beer
go on a trip?---start saving cuz i am
talk about stuff?
i do stuff all the time----you want in on it?