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30 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:12pm
Straight, Questioning, Sapiosexual
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Japanese (Okay), Korean (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Transplant from Wisconsin...thunderstorms still in my blood (and cheese in the fridge)

I'm trying to plan a trip to Colombia, anyone interested in jungles, mountains, ancient sites, Colombian food, and Colombian people??
What I’m doing with my life
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Life: Building a garden utopia, running a new business, full time school, crafting a magical life. Designing, learning, traveling. Former lives as game designer and full-contact kickboxer.

Relationships: Few but deep. Don't deal with superficiality or lies. I love finding the spark in people that drives their will. I prefer people who push me forward as opposed to telling me it's all ok.

Body: Very committed to keeping my body strong, nimble, and clean! Daily biking/running/climbing/soccer/stretching, Home-cooked almost everything, and obsessive maintenance.

Mind: Deep study of horticulture, speculative and cognitive philosophy, history and much more (psychology, religion, craft, etc.). I take ideas seriously and spin dreams into reality.

Pleasure: Sun, vision, construction, sexuality, water, soil, storms, travel, understanding, music, fear, skin, silk, wood, cotton...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Advocating for the devil
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: 1491, 1493, Goedel, Escher, and Bach, The Phenomenology of Spirit, The Age of Fracture, Present Shock, The Rebel, Operation Paperclip

Music: Prince, Kool Kieth, Eek-A-Mouse, Deltron, Bach, Debussy, Denizen Kane, Desmond Dekker, Slagmalsklubben, Fleetwood Mac, Animal Collective, and polka, and oldies, and big band, and minimal...

Movies: Blade Runner, Samsara, The Pervert's guide to Ideology, X-Men, Akira, Most Stanly Kubrick stuff

Shows: As of recently, pretty into House of Cards

Food: Fresh, crispy, spicy, savory, crunchy, sweet, fermented, fried, boiled, and baked.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Birth order, the relationship of independence to power, effect of foods on the brain (especially spices and herbs), subconscious communication, how to induce transcendent experiences with light and sound, reforesting the desert
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You should message me if
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You like plants and deconstructing reality.