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30 Oakland, CA Man, Other

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:01pm
Straight, Questioning, Sapiosexual
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Japanese (Okay), Korean (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I spend my time in the garden, in the kitchen, in class, and lost on the internet. Would like to spend more time in conversation, in the forest, and napping in the sun.

I prioritize health, knowledge, self-awareness, and honesty. Usually those things don't contradict.

Well traveled, well educated, well nourished, well adapted.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Life: Building a garden utopia, running a new business, full time school. Designing, learning, traveling.

Relationships: Few but deep. No patience for superficiality or lies. I love finding the spark in people that drives their will.

Body: Very committed to keeping my body strong, nimble, and clean! (daily biking/running/climbing/stretching, home-cooked almost everything, obsessive maintenance). Eat everything my soul asks for.

Mind: Deep study of horticulture, existential philosophy, and much more (history, psychology, religion, crafts, etc.). I take ideas seriously and try to spin my dreams into reality.

Pleasure: Sun, vision, construction, sexuality, water, soil, weather, travel, understanding, music, fear, skin, silk, wood, cotton...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Advocating for the devil
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: 1491, 1493, Goedel, Escher, and Bach, The Phenomenology of Spirit, The Age of Fracture, Present Shock, The Rebel, Operation Paperclip

Music: Prince, Kool Kieth, Eek-A-Mouse, Deltron, Bach, Debussy, Denizen Kane, Desmond Dekker, Slagmalsklubben, Fleetwood Mac, Animal Collective, and polka, and oldies, and big band, and minimal...

Movies: Blade Runner, Samsara, The Pervert's guide to Ideology, X-Men, Akira, Most Stanly Kubrick stuff

Shows: As of recently, pretty into House of Cards

Food: Fresh, crispy, spicy, savory, crunchy, sweet, fermented, fried, boiled, and baked.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Someone to care about (in addition to my family)
Time and space to build and grow
Understanding and knowledge
The possibility for change
Health and strength!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You should message me if
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You think you can compete with my garden for my attention ;D