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30 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
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Straight, Questioning, Sapiosexual
Open relationship
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat), Korean (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's not my baby

I'm an artist, nerd, athlete, punk, housewife, philosopher, contrarian, designer, businessman, farmer.

Transplant from Wisconsin...thunderstorms still in my blood (and cheese in the fridge)

I don't smoke weed, sorry/not sorry
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working from home, growing/cooking food, moto-biking around, studying plants, intense exercise/sports, traveling around the world, scrolling tumblr, failing at meeting people online.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Advocating for the devil
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: 1491, 1493, Goedel, Escher, and Bach, The Phenomenology of Spirit, The Age of Fracture, Present Shock, The Rebel, Operation Paperclip

Music: Prince, Kool Kieth, Eek-A-Mouse, Deltron, Bach, Debussy, Denizen Kane, Desmond Dekker, Slagmalsklubben, Fleetwood Mac, Animal Collective, and polka, and oldies, and big band, and minimal...

Movies: Blade Runner, Samsara, The Pervert's guide to Ideology, X-Men, Akira, Most Stanly Kubrick stuff

Food: Fresh, crispy, spicy, savory, crunchy, sweet, fermented, fried, boiled, and baked.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Birth order, the relationship of independence to power, effect of foods on the brain (especially spices and herbs), subconscious communication, how to induce transcendent experiences with light and sound, reforesting the desert
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You should message me if
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You like plants and deconstructing reality.

(Like me back when I like you and I'll write you a nice message!)