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mmesmerr

41 / M / Straight / Single

San Ramon, California

His Details

Last Online
Jun 14
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm eternally curious, wondering about you as you read this right now. Are you looking for me? Or just looking? Or are you curious too? I'm a Bay Area boy with a travel bug -- I'd much rather head for the mountains or the sea shore when I have time off. I'm professionally ambitious and fairly successful in my chosen field.

You are someone who knows yourself well. You prefer to be with a strong, confident man, who will support you, but not smother you.

You are sexually submissive, but that doesn't mean you like to be walked all over.

You prefer someone who is thoughtful and spontaneous, who is intellectually curious, yet loves to have fun.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now, nearly all the puzzle pieces are in place. I'm just looking for you.
I’m really good at
listening. Being creative. Getting silly. Talking to different kinds of people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books by Thoreau. Nearly every kids movie made before 10 years ago. 80s music. Pizza, Chinese, Japanese, Mexican.
The six things I could never do without
Something to write with (I love writing), books, a cup of coffee, a nice view, tennis shoes and probably my iPhone.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing work or trying a new beer with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've discovered that I have a dominant personality.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–41
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You like long, slow conversations where we get to know each other deeply.