32 Carlsbad, NM
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My self-summary
I'm the nice guy that girls always wonder about, but never give a chance. That sounds like a pity party, but I've come to terms with it. I have no misconceptions about my flaws and shortcomings, but I'm an excellent boyfriend, and a fairly decent person. I was raised to respect and follow a certain ethical code, and though I've adjusted it to fit my personal beliefs, I do follow it firmly. I don't think there are a lot of people anymore with strong personal character, and I am proud that I am one of the few. I'm smart, quiet, very affectionate and fiercely loyal. I'm chock full of contradictions. Deep down I'm a romantic, but am also very sarcastic and cynical. I love hard, and always end up getting hurt, but I don't know any other way. I'm not an incredibly confident, cocky guy, which may explain why I'm on an internet dating site. I believe that anyone who's honest with themselves can never be a very confident person. If I ever stop being critical of myself, I'm sure I will stop improving. I love cars, building guitars, UFC, and guns, but I also read a lot and follow technology and gadgets pretty closely. I read everything from classical literature to some fantasy stuff to physics research for fun. I'm really into movies and music; I have hundreds of DVDs and about 12,000 songs on my ipod. Right now I work a lot and just finished up my third degree. I love Guinness, Chuck Taylors, aviators, guitars, and other random things. I tend to be rather shy when I first meet people, and I'm always told I'm quiet. I can, however, carry on a meaningful conversation with anyone. I've just found that most people talk a lot, but never say anything. I'd rather be silent than asinine and shallow. I can't say exactly what I'm looking for, but I'll know her when I see her. I'm not a 'casual' dater and I am looking for someone who is serious about a relationship. Music/movie lover is a huge plus. I'm not very good at describing myself, so let me know if you have any questions.
What I’m doing with my life
Working. Just finished school............for the third time. Moving to New Mexico for my new job. I have an Associate of Arts, a Bachelor of Arts, and an Associate of Applied Sciences. I love learning and may spend the rest of my life accruing degrees. I am currently contemplating going to school online for a Bachelor's in Engineering. I recently decided to do things I've always wanted to, but was too afraid, so bungie jumping, skydiving and other things are on the horizon.
I’m really good at
Learning, remembering, sarcasm, making people laugh, being dependable.
The first things people usually notice about me
I honestly don't know, and not sure how much I care. First impressions aren't my strong suit, I'm more interesting the more you get to know me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a lot, so there are many books I like. Chuck Palahniuk is my favorite, but I read a lot of vast and varied subjects: history, biographies, fiction, fantasy, sci-fi, classics, economics, and political subjects. Everything from Homer to Butcher, and a lot in-between. Love movies, too many to name. I like most all kinds of music: rock, classic rock, jazz, blues, Texas country, post-hardcore, screamo, trance, some dub step, to name a few. It's Always Sunny, Office, Workaholics, Archer, House, Scrubs, Justified, Wilfred.
The six things I could never do without
Audiobooks-how I survive work
Music-also work survival
My car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lots of things: work, school, physics, zombie preparation, food, money, day-to-day worries, existentialism, whatever pops into my head. I spend a lot of time in my head and I'm likely to think through whatever happens to lodge itself in there.
On a typical Friday night I am
At a movie or with some of my friends off doing whatever. It varies greatly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Just about anything you're willing to ask, I have very little shame.
You should message me if what you see? Isn't that the point of this site? Movie and/or music aficionado a definite plus.