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26 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:11am
Asian, White
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Originally from Honolulu, educated in the Midwest 🐙

If you feel the need to ask me, "Why would you live in Chicago when you're from Hawaii?!" maybe you should be asking yourself why YOU live in Chicago. (Did you know you can live anywhere in the effing world you want? 😝)

I'll be in the city until the end of 2015 before deciding where my next adventure will take me. Looking for a solid partner in crime to share the rest of my time here with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Slinging drinks and meeting deadlines.

Observing, eavesdropping, soaking it all in so I can write write write...

Meditating, reading, journaling, attempting to create routine and break bad habits.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing - don't know if that's something someone can be good at, but I sure do it a lot hahahahaha <--- see???

Feeding people - I love to cook and feed my friends!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile! How loud my voice/laugh is :)

I'm sure a lot of my first dates notice what a nervous wackadoo chatty mess I am - I'll chill out on the second one! I swear!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Fine, fine, I'll pick a handful of each...subject to change...

These I can read over and over and over...
-Women by Charles Bukowski
-Stargirl by Jerry Spinelli
-The Dream Songs by John Berryman
-The Pillowbook by Sei Shonagon
-Geek Love by Katherine Dunn
-Who Will Run the Frog Hospital? By Lorrie Moore
-The Phantom Tollbooth by Norton Juster
-One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel Garcia Marquez
-The Shape of the Journey by Jim Harrison
-The Mad Farmer Poems by Wendell Berry

-Wayne's World
-A Clockwork Orange
-Chungking Express
-The Endless Summer
-Jurassic Park

-Breaking Bad
-Freaks and Geeks
-Parks and Recreation
-The Wire
-Bob's Burgers
-The Office
-American Horror Story
-The Sopranos
-Arrested Development
-Tim and Eric anythingeverything

Music is a tough one...I love it all! No joke haha I really will give anything a listen.
It's all about good storytelling.
Hint: fast track to this girls heart...take her to a show ;)

Food is a tough one too...I'll eat just about anything and try anything once :) I'm definitely a girl who loves to eat and isn't picky in the least.
The spicier the better:)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My amazing friends and supportive family
2. Traveling/wanderlust
3. My babies! I have a bullydog and a giant cat
4. Cooking and eating - in that order
5. Music, playing and listening. I love going to see live music of all varieties
6. The beach: sunshine, salty waters, fresh air

Etc etc etc...
*Stories - from your mouth or mine
*Hot Cheetos
*Early mornings
*Gold n' jewels
*Hugs n' snugs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The next steps in this exciting life.

Oh and warm times. And hiking, and camping, and running through the woods. The Midwest is magic in the summer and I can't wait to take advantage of all of it's strange and beautiful landscapes.

The ridiculousness of this site! The vulgarity of the messages Ive received - do people speak to one another like that in real life?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working! But still having a good time for sure :)

If I'm off, you can find me at home cooking dinner with my roomie, talking and drinking into the night with friends. Or out listening to music and dancedancedancin!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hate being interrupted when I'm talking, but I interrupt people all the time. If we meet and I do this to you, I'm totally fine with you giving me a little jab in the ribs for it :) I'm trying to cut the annoying habit.

I definitely have much more private things I could fess up to, but you'll just have to get to know me to squeeze out those secrets.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. think we'll hit it off! I'm pretty friendly, chill and easy to get along with - as well as a little weird - I hope you are too 😛're willing to send me a message that reflects how you would approach me in real life. I don't mean this literally (I get a zillion messages saying, "How can I approach you irl if we're on the Internet?!" Or "Here's what I would say to you if I saw you at a bar..." 😑)...I simply mean in a respectful and realistic manner. I highly doubt people are approaching each other with the kind of vulgarity I've witnessed on here. wanna join me on my geocaching adventures! Nerd out with meee!'re 420 friendly - I love making new shmokin buddies 🍁

ENFP - do we get along?

Super sorry - I don't (can't!) respond to each and every message I receive. I do have a life haha! You should too! But in all sincerity, please don't take it personally. You wouldn't believe how cruel people can be when you don't respond 😞 play nice, kids! 😘