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35 M San Jose, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:03am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Easy going, fun loving, blah blah blah. Haha. No but seriously, I'm not really sure how to summarize myself in a few short words. I do consider myself easy going, but very passionate at the same time. I love to have a good time and I make a conscious effort to stay up. I believe life is what you make it and you need to keep things in perspective and focus on what's really important. And to me, that's happiness for myself and the people I care about. And it's the simplest of things that keep me happy.

What I’m doing with my life
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Right now I'm just working hard to get ahead. I'm fortunate that I really enjoy my job. On the personal side of things, I feel like there's plenty of room for enrichment. I would hate to look back and on life and see that I only focused on work. :( So I'm looking for partners in crime to help me out here.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
One thing I'm NOT really good at is writing about myself. I guess I'm good at.... I'll get back to this one later.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I really have no idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't read enough and it takes me months sometimes to finish a book from cover to cover but recent and or current reads (I have a bad habit of starting something new before I've finished multiple other things I've started) have been Keith Richards' autobiography, Steve Jobs' biography, Artie Lange's biography, Christoper Hitchens, Upton Sinclair's The Jungle, Who Hates Whom).
Some favorite authors are Steinbeck (East of Eden and Grapes of Wrath in particular), Kurt Vonnegut and Charles Bukoswki to name only a few. I would like to expand this section so recommendations are always welcome.
As for TV, I don't really have any regular shows. I don't watch American Idol, The Voice, Survivor, Big Brother, The Bachelor or whatever reality bullshit is on. I won't say that I don't like reality TV entirely because I do like shows like First 48 and My Strange Addiction (that shit is crazy). I also watch Tosh.0 whenever I can. It's probably my favorite show on TV right now. Sometimes I might watch Letterman or some other late night show as I'm falling asleep, depending on the guest.
Music. Hmmm. I LOVE music. Despite some of the TV shows listed above, my TV is always always on mute because I have music playing. I won't get into listing favorites because the scope is too wide and I might listen to totally different artists or genres depending on whatever I feel like at the time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family, friends, exercise, food (obviously you can't live without food, but I can eat more than anyone you know), coffee, music. Is that six? I can go on.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Trying to figure out what the hell I'm thinking about. My thoughts wander.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Just relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I didn't write the "You should message me if" section below. I just find what I put there in it's place goddamn hilarious.
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