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42 M Prior Lake, MN

My Details

Last Online
Jul 17
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I a unique professional, kind, creative intelligent, friendly, generous, richly blessed nice guy
that does not finish last (...I am not even finished yet)

I'm the kind of guy who gets going when the going gets tough (no, no... I don't mean leaving..)

I'm the kind of guy that has his stuff together (It's in a pile on my living room floor, not sure what to do with it)

Ultimately, I want to find a healthy long term relationship with someone that fits well into my life, with whom my finer qualities will not be lost. (and my less desirable qualities will be lost)
What I’m doing with my life
Taking care of kids, paying taxes, trying to figure things out.
I’m really good at
Seeing both sides
Thinking outside of the box
Feeling outside of the box (is that a thing?)
The first things people usually notice about me
I am having trouble guessing on this one. It probably depends largely on my mood and the context.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books that come to mind as standouts:
Narnia, Harry Potter, Douglas Adams, Dune, Mars Trilogy, Brave New World, 1984, the five people you meet in heaven. I do read quite a bit of non-fiction topics like psychology, relationships, parenting, science, politics, religion, history, philosophy etc.

U2, Beatles, Coldplay, Mumford and Sons, Spoon, Bloc Party, The Who, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Prince ,John Denver.
I like latin dance music, and dance music in general.
I like 'The Current', and 97.1.
The song 'Radioactive' has been in my head all day.
Princess Bride (though I wish it was named differently), Star Wars, Bourne Trilogy, Austin Powers, Fight Club, Wedding Crashers, American Pie, Hangover (Just the 1st one), Shawshank Redemption, A few good men, Zombieland, Serenity

Big Bang Theory, Modern Family, Arrested Development, Weeds, Firefly, Doctor Who
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What do my kids need from me and how can I best provide it. Work problems. What I need to do now to be where I want in the future? Where do I want to be in the future? Which facts are trustworthy, which were skewed to serve political agendas? What is right and wrong with the world. How can i help?
The series of novels I intend to write.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I am parking in a tight spot, I tend to lean, as if leaning is going to affect where the car goes.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you need a partner in crime (we can start with gas stations and work up to banks,maybe some lake superior piracy )

If you like dancing.
If you take good care of yourself
mentally, physically and emotionally. If you have an advanced degree. If you GAF aboIfut people and the world.
If I message you, it is recommended that you respond.
Also, if you are creative/ artistic.

If you speak Spanish.