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47 Saint Paul, MN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–46
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:58pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Has kids
Likes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
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Hello everybody! I'm relatively new to OkCupid and I'm looking to meet someone special. I am divorced and a father of 3 wonderful kids and a lover of life! I have been told I'm smart, funny, kind, caring, giving, romantic, athletic and just an all around nice guy. A great friend for sure!

I love sports of all kinds, movies, music and singing, hiking, biking, hanging out with friends and especially spending time with my kids! I love to bake chocolate chip cookies and grill in the summer. I enjoy a good cold beer or glass of wine. I like going out but also enjoy staying in.

Drop me a note if you'd like to know more!

I am intelligent, caring, and a nice guy
What I’m doing with my life
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I am first and foremost a father. My kids are the world to me. I have a girl and 2 boys. But I also would like to find someone special for me. I have time now without the kids and would make time for that special someone. A best friend. To share time with. The big stuff and the everyday stuff. A laugh, a funny movie, a good book, a meal, a drink, a stirring conversation or just a quiet night in sitting on the couch watching a good movie.

I work hard but work is not my life. I have my priorities straight. I believe in God and have strong faith, but I'm not going to convert anybody nor do I want you to try and convert me.

Bottom-line: just a good guy looking for a best friend...with the possibility of much more!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at being a dad. I love being with my kids...helping them with homework. Fixing meals. Playing games with them (Wii, Monopoly, Trouble, cards, etc.). Coaching them. Watching them compete. Encouraging them in school or with piano or in music.

I'm also really good at being a nice guy. A great friend. Someone who listens. Someone who cares. Someone who will keep you in my prayers. Someone who seeks a great friend...a best friend.

Last but certainly not least, I am very good at baking chocolate chip cookies, making lasagna and cheering on my Fighting Irish of Notre Dame!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My dimples and my blue eyes...everybody likes my dimples for some reason! I also love to smile and laugh, so that is noticed as well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I LOVE to read and watch movies and listen to music and eat...haha!

I will read just about anything if it's been recommended to me. Love authors like Vince Flynn and Brad Thor and John Sanford. I loved "The Kite Runner" - incredible book!

I love movies...ones that make me laugh and cry. Action, suspense, drama, romantic comedies...I even like some chick flicks. Oh well...

As for music I love classics like the Beatles and Paul McCartney. James Taylor and Van Morrison. I also like Van Halen and Green Day. I also listen to Alice Peacock, Kelly Clarkson and Josh tastes are across the board! Not big into rap or most country however.

As for food, I absolutely love Italian food. I like lots of other stuff as well, but that is a good start!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My kids & my family
- My health
- my iPhone
- my bike
- my Notre Dame Fighting Irish
- my faith & friends

I know...I cheated a bit and added a couple extra...sue me! Wait...please don't sue me...haha!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Making sure I live a full and happy life. Each and everyday. Easier said than done, but it's a good goal to shoot for!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either with my kids or with a friend or friends having some fun. Might be at someone's house just hanging out. At a movie or out for a drink and good conversation. Or possibly at a sporting event. Even a quiet night at home works for me!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I actually enjoyed all 3 of the High School Musical movies...I can even sing along to many of the songs. So sue me! hahaha!
You should message me if
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If you are real and genuine and down to earth and are seeking something real. I am not into playing games (although I do love to have fun!). I want to find someone special to get to know better. If that great friendship turns into something more then wonderful!

If you like chocolate chip cookies, a good drink, stimulating conversation, guys with brains, exploring the Twin Cities or the surrounding area (does Europe count?) or just want to meet for coffee...please message me. Thanks!