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29 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Moved up here from Tallahassee where I went to Florida State for my masters degree. (I agree Jameis has made some dumb decisions and glad he was suspended for the game).

Born and raised in Boston, so dropping r's and saying y'all is a normal part of my verbage.

I've travelled to 15 countries. 10 while I studied abroad as an undergrad on a ship circling the world. I would do anything to go back on it. The experience of seeing abject poverty along side extreme wealth changed and challenged who I am and what my core beliefs are. It showed me the strength and resolve of the human spirit can conquer all.

My fun fact is that I got a fist bump from Michelle Obama.

Also, shiny objects are my downfall.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working with college freshman, and developing a new STEM focused living learning community. Making sure I call home everyday (well, at least every other), it's an oldest son thing.

Enjoying the last of the summer, and start of sweater weather, but not ready for the harsh reality that is winter.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I probably make one of the best burgers in New York. Always on a quest to find an equal competitor. Shake Shack is always good though.

Becoming passionate and focused when I'm excited about something.

Asking questions that make others think.

Supporting and challenging the people around me to be their best selves.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My accent, "Y'all, where's my cah" (car) is usually an attention grabber.

My energy and where it comes from. (It's people and coffee)

Oh and my beard, it's pretty awesome.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Shows: West Wing, How I Met Your Mother (worst finale ever). Scandal, House of Cards, and The League

Movies: A Few Good Men, It's a wonderful life (why is it only on once a year)

Food: Cheeseburgers, Coffee
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Social Justice
NPR Morning Edition/TED Talks/New York Times
Terrible puns (also dad jokes)
Intellectual conversations
Notepad for the random thoughts
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where did I put my coffee?

What I can do to help my students grow into the people they should be.

Worrying if my students will one day actually succeed in tearing the building a part.

Thinking I need to do everything right now, but Netflix auto play has sucked me into another episode of the West Wing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Can't stop, won't stop. (I work with college students, their sayings get stuck in my head)

Unless I have to work an event/on duty, or there's a polar vortex.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I almost got arrested in Japan (nothing bad, just a fun story)

Every time I see someone with a seatbelt as a messenger bag strap, I want to push the button and walk away.

and I get distracted by shiny objects
You should message me if
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You want a partner in metaphorical crime to seize the day, or are just as happy on the couch and binging on Netflix or college football when in season.

I want someone who pushes me to be my best, but tells me to calm down when I get too focused (it's rare, see shiny object comment from above)
Let's meet up and see where the adventure of the day leads us!

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