Often I think that I'm nothing but the space between all the beings and experiences that butt up against me, like the inside of a raspberry.
I identify as 'explicit-amorous'--I recognize that relationships (sexual or not; see this is about more than who we fuck) are ever-changing, try to be up front about my desires/expectations/boundaries (even if I can't always figure them out) and encourage others to do the same.
By the way, I do not discriminate against older women, mothers, or folks with gender identities/sexual preferences outside the 'norm'. In fact, 'normal' is pretty much an anathema to me.
You will earn serious points with me if you love animals--even more if you also love the not-so-cute ones.