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31 Bloomsburg, PA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 25–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 23
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Other, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Okay), Slovenian (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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You will earn serious points with me if you love animals--even more if you also love the not-so-cute ones.

Often I think that I'm nothing but the space between all the beings and experiences that butt up against me, like the inside of a raspberry.

I identify as 'explicit-amorous'--I recognize that relationships (sexual or not; see this is about more than who we fuck) are ever-changing, try to be up front about my desires/expectations/boundaries (even if I can't always figure them out) and encourage others to do the same.

By the way, I do not discriminate against older women, mothers, or folks with gender identities/sexual preferences outside the 'norm'. In fact, 'normal' is pretty much an anathema to me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a farmer, community organizer, writer, illustrator and budding human sexuality educator.

I write a blog:
I’m really good at
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I like thrift stores, sewing, telling stories, playing music (I play the fiddle), doing handstands, warm lights, skinny dipping, dancing, sex, cuddling, capoeira, the smell of wood smoke, ink, parenthetic interjections, thyme, cast iron skillets, and dreams about flying.

i'm developing a set over-30 superpowers. these include:
-the ability to bundle/secure/keep things dry and free of mildew
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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miyazaki. edward gorey. john waters. chick peas. oblongs. the faint. vegan desserts. alison bechtel. regina spektor. neutral milk hotel. the mars volta. bob's burgers. yann tiersen. sunflower seeds. ursula leguin. pancakes. jesus christ: vampire hunter. labyrinth. the name of the rose. the girl factory. wonder showzen. toots and the maytals. the caveman's valentine. daniel clowes. jess fink. calvin and hobbes. h.p.lovecraft. kale.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
sex, politics, and spirituality OR sex: politics and spirituality
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
taking a 'visual shower' (checking myself for ticks)
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my combination:
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you are mostly silly but take important things very seriously. I'm generally pretty approachable and very non-judgemental.

As a farmer, I resent this unseasonable chill--but not as a lover of autumn. It's telling my body that cuddling will soon be pragmatic as it is pleasurable.