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37 F Chapel Hill, NC

My Details

Last Online
Jul 18
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Dutch (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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hmm, don't even know where to begin....
What I’m doing with my life
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i moved back to the US four years ago to take up my job at UNC. still wondering if i should have stayed put on the other side of the atlantic. don't get me wrong, i love chapel hill/carrboro....i've just lived abroad often and miss europe...a lot!

i love to teach and am excited i'm getting to do more of that these days. this semester it's an MA course on political contestation in europe.

i also love to travel and, thankfully, get to do a lot of it for my job. most recent new adventures were hiking in corsica, exploring the wine country in portugal and soaking in the sun in culebra...all beautiful!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
going with the flow...especially when traveling
debating/arguing (depending on how you view it)
genuinely seeing the best in others
The first things people usually notice about me
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usually my smile, my propensity to laugh, and my honesty (to hell with the consequences!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: to kill a mockingbird; as i lay dying; the once and future king; all quiet on the western front; one flew over the cockoo's nest; bill bryson and david sedaris also really make me laugh

movies: miss congeniality; the big lebowski; platoon; wag the dog; girl, interrupted; goodbye lenin; the lives of others; almost famous; stand by me; bull durham

shows: homeland; battlestar galactica; west wing; ally mcbeal; buffy the vampire slayer; weeds; friday night lights; MI-5; the daily show

music: bob dylan; tori amos; jonny cash; bebel gilberto; the rolling stones; ben folds; gillian welsh; madonna; james taylor; lucinda williams; willy nelson; janis ian...i guess i like a little of everything but as my list reveals, my favs are in the folk genre....

....and on a related note, i'm an NPR junkie!

food: anything goes....the spicier, the better!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my passport
the outdoors
my sister
a stiff drink
a good laugh
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
WAY too much.....hence my chronic insomnia.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out at a pub, bar, etc.
heading out of town
sadly, working!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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ask in person and i'll probably tell you.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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if any of the above strikes your fancy.