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30 Albuquerque, NM Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:19pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I know this sounds terrible, but really, I'm sick to death of ass holes on here. I'm sick of shallow messages. No i dont want to be your "sugar baby". No, I don't want to let you "rim me for 15 minutes". ( not that there is necessarily a problem with rimming Lol. I'm pretty sexual. I get it. But come on!) No I don't want to meet you when you're "only in town for tonight ". What the hell is wrong with all of you?! What makes you think girls want to be talked to that way?! How about before you write another girl a message like that, you stop, take a breather, and go f-yourself you weird little prick.
If none of that applies to you, Maybe you should go read my "message me if" section before you waste your time reading my profile.

OK! That's out of the way, Let's get started.
Anyway! I'm a pretty laid back person I think. I try not to think too much about things I cant really control. As in where I should be or shouldn't be at my age, if I am doing everything "right", if I'll be like my mother, lol, those sort of things. I just have to let things happen. They will anyway no matter what I do. I think as long as I continue to make positive actions in my life, I will get to where I need to be. I have thought I had everything figured out so many times and then life comes and turns it all around. Might as well just roll with it. I like to think of my life as a day by day experiment. We'll see what happens....
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to figure it out. Working on school and becoming the best version of myself I can be.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Usually that I am tall. My eyes. My nose.... You dont have to tell me its big. Guess what? I know its big! It HAS been on my face for 28 years lol. I have grown to like it though. It fits my face ;) After the physical things, I have no clue. Get to know me and find out!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love reading! Although with school I dont get to read much for pleasure. I have read Helter Skelter a couple times. Scar tissue by Anthony Kiedis(great, great book. Read it). I like just about anything from Stephen King. Although he does have a tendency to be long winded, and, from time to time, pretty ridiculous. And, of course, Im a girl, I love Twilight. I really need to expand my reading because there is so much out there I am yet to soak up.

Every single time I watch "Something about Mary", I laugh like its the first. "Pineapple Express", "Pulp Fiction", "Stand by me", "Knocked up", "Almost Famous", "Forest Gump", "A lot like love". This could go on forever. To sum it up I like smart, sexy, funny, action, scary, edge of your seat, hide in the shoulder of the person your next to, suck back your tears because you dont want to look like an ass, inspiring, mind blowing, magical, cant quite wrap your mind around it the first time, wish you were kissing the one you were watching it with, stick with you, and make you see things in a different way, even if its just for a day, kinda movies.

TV shows: Family Guy, American Dad, Girl Code, Ghost Adventures, Paranormal Witness, Destination Truth, and pretty much anything ghosty. Yep, Im one of THOSE people. I cant help it, I love the paranormal and the unknown. Its like, the last "magical" thing to believe in. No more Santa or the Tooth Fairy. Theres got to be something after this life. Anyway, Also love true crime shows like Forensic Files, the First 48 and Notorious. However, I shouldnt watch that shit! It gets me so paranoid that someone is going to try to kill me! Cant even sleep with the damn window open in the summer because I saw a case like that on an episode! Bad for your health I tell ya. But Im hooked :)

Music! Oh so so much. Jazz and Blues. Love it! My heart is in New Orleans and live Jazz and Blues makes my soul sing. One of my all time favorite bands is Red Hot Chili Peppers. Dont even go there, I love them no matter what you say. I love everything from Counting Crows, to Queens of the Stone age to the Doors. I love 90s alternative. I AM known to like what other people call crap, like paramore, fallout boy and shit you would probably hear while shopping in Urban Outfitters.

Food. Well, Unfortunately I recently discovered I have celiac disease. It's really a big deal and very important to me to follow a strict gluten free diet. No f-ing around. It's kind of depressing sometimes because eating out or at someone's house is Almost impossible. So that has been a challenge. However its getting easier. I'm actually pretty grateful. I thought I was dying, really, dying before I found out what was wrong with me. So eating out is tricky. Word of advice: if we go out, and you DARE tell me to just eat a salad, just because you can't be bothered with finding a restaurant that accommodates me, I will stab you in the neck with my fork. That is my biggest pet peeve! YOU eat a salad without dressing and tell me how satisfying that is. Lol. Ive lost friends over such situations. So, I can still eat all my favorite foods, just need it prepared differently. Green chili chicken enchiladas are my favorite. I like weird food too. Ill eat just about anything. If its weird, raw, foreign and most people think its disgusting. Ill eat it and probably like it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I have discovered that my life doesnt end without things and people I thought I couldnt live without. People die, things change. And you learn to live and grow and adapt.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I will travel to, what my life will be like in the future, how to stay positive, the after life. A lot of the time my thoughts have nothing to do with reality. At least what is not YET my reality. It will happen.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home studying. Most of my free time is devoted to studying.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm not contacting people first anymore. You boys are so full of shit. You like the chase No matter what you say. So don't expect me to make the first move. I've tried that. I'm done. Come get me.

If you're not interested in meeting me. Move along.

I'm kind of "needy". Needy in the sense that if I'm dating someone, I expect that person to follow through with plans with me. I also expect to see that person more than once a month. I expect that person to contact me frequently. I know How it works and I believe if you're not contacting me, you're not thinking of me, and I'm not OK with that. So if you're too busy, or that's "too needy" for you, or you're an emotionally unavailable person, Just go ahead a kick rocks.

Also.... I know this is really picky. But I really hate when people put pictures of their kids on dating sites. While I'd prefer to date someone who doesn't have kids, it's not a deal breaker.... I'm not saying lie. I'm saying putting their pictures up is weird. Huge turn off.

I want to say, I do like girls! However, its only fair to let you know I'm not looking for love or any kind of long term relationship with a girl. Ive always been attracted to girls. Just never had the opportunity. So if you're a fun, nice, cute girl who's curious too, hit me up!

I don’t really have a list of “must haves” and “must not”s. I think when you do that, you deny yourself the opportunity to meet some very wonderful people. It used to be “cant smoke. Can’t like to hunt. Can’t have kids. Yada yada. But I have met men in the past that have one or more of my “must not”s and I fell in love with a few of them and made wonderful friends with most all. So I avoid limiting myself to a certain group.