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46 • Austin, TX • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 28–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 16
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Doesn’t want kids
- Dislikes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Ancient Greek (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)
Kind of a hippie-punk-hipster hybrid.
Prefer dating guys who are bi or who identify as queer. Trans-guys are cool too. I present as masculine but like many hippie dudes I enjoy wearing non-pants from time to time: skirts, kilts, gender neutral dresses - and I also like Renaissance, Steampunk, and cyberpunk wear though I'm not crafty enough to pull all those off.
I'm polytheistic, pantheist and animist, with Buddhist learnings.
I'm omnivorous, I don't mind dating vegans and vegies, as long as there is mutual respect for each others' conscious choices.
I take the Buddhist Dharma seriously and have a commitment to non-violence, the challenge is illustrated by this story:
A Vietnam veteran was overheard rebuking the Vietnamese Buddhist monk, Thich Nhat Hanh, about his unswerving dedication to non-violence.
"You're a fool," said the veteran - "what if someone had wiped out all the Buddhists in the world and you were the last one left. Would you not try to kill the person who was trying to kill you, and in doing so save Buddhism?!"
Thich Nhat Hanh answered patiently "It would be better to let him kill me. If there is any truth to Buddhism and the Dharma it will not disappear from the face of the earth, but will reappear when seekers of truth are ready to rediscover it. In killing I would be betraying and abandoning the very teachings I would be seeking to preserve. So it would be better to let him kill me and remain true to the spirit of the Dharma."
Writing, performance, massage, singing, cooking, learning languages.
Appreciating the bass guitar, the acoustic guitar, the mountain dulcimer, the fiddle, the banjo, and especially the cello.
Buying musical instruments that I think are cool
Leading and collaborating spontaneous community ritual/ceremony.
Identifying native plants.
My big feet (size 10 for most shoes, 9 for Chux)
My 3-d labyrinth tattoo
Music: Obsolete Machines, Maroon 5, John Mayer, Jack Johnson, Jason Mraz, Tucker Livingston, Tucker Livingston, Gordon Lightfoot, Montian Gilruth, Dale Marsh/Tallguy Kidd, Paul Minor, Andrew Duplantis, Clyde and Clem's Whiskey Business, Ricky Stein, The Story Of, War Against Sleep (Austin); Brendan Perry, Dead Can Dance, The Shamen, Depeche Mode, Siouxsie and the Banshees, Ultravox, The Cure, Joy Division, New Order, James Taylor, Kansas; Front242, the KLF/JAMs/Timelords, School of Seven Bells
FIlms: Star Wars, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, My Beautiful Laundrette, Trick, Splendor, Galaxy Express 999, Princess Mononoke, Spirited Away, Before Sunrise, Waking Life, Slacker, Dazed and Confused, Clerks, Mall Rats, Chasing Amy, Can't Hardly Wait, Simon - King of the Witches
TV/DVD: Babylon 5, Doctor Who, Robin Hood (BBC), Star Trek, Friends, Seinfeld, Battle of the Planets, Star Blazers, He Man and She Ra, the original Power Rangers, Ultraman, Land of the Lost, Kroft Super Show
Foods: Salmon, cod, organic meat and veggies, raw organic eggs, butter, bacon, no pork though it makes me sick.
Beverages: Water, Lone Star, Guinness, almost any Porter, Zinfandel wine, Cotes du Rhone wine, Jameson's whiskey (on the rocks!).
The Waters of reflection
The Wind of inspiration
The Fire of illumination
The Harmony of the spheres
The Love of allness
Rewilding and undomesticating the self.
sex. (let's be honest here..)
noticing that lots of guys around me are cute.
Oh - red hair!
Ooh - beard!
Thick bushy dark eyebrows.
Skinny hairy guys.
The Good, the True, The Beautiful.
How hard it is to throw stuff out that may still be useful.
How bad civilization is for the Earth and biosphere.
The practical implications and consequences of Hermeticist Neo-Platonism.
How glad and grateful I am that GW Bush is out of the frigging White House for good.
How awful soymilk tastes with coffee and how insane anyone must be to drink the two together.
At a coffee shop.
Looking at OKCupid because I am forever alone.
I helped a friend pick up and butcher a roadkill deer once so he could make venison jerky and brain-tan the hide.
I'm turned off by profile photos of guys with their dogs. I go completely mango though for guys who have photos with their cats or kittens. I thought the dog boy in the "Cats vs Dogs as people" video was pretty adorable though.
You are scruffy or have a beard.
You have red hair and freckles ^_^
You don't shave your legs.
You are musical and artistic
You play bass guitar
You enjoy a retro aesthetic (ie. a la Suicide Grrls)
You like Renaissance Faires
You want to start a band or other collaboration
You wear kilts or peasant skirts
You can tell me more about the forest that you once called home
You think foraging plants and hunting game are awesome
You grok this (on youtube): watch?v=3RdvPJdxrZs
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