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  • Ages 24-39
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Last online
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5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hey there~

If I were to describe myself, I suppose the first thing that comes to mind is a creative type who needs to spend more time doing just that!

I'm a writer who has just started dabbling in acting and spend my free moments typing, watching, reading, and playing.

My passions in life are movies, manga, and games (board, rpgs, CAH, whatever)... though I've always wanted to learn to cook. I mean, REALLY cook, not just pour and stir meals.

I've written three novels in the past three years (Woo! NaNoWriMo!) and aim to do another this year and every year thereafter until I die (or become rich, famous, and thoroughly idle).

I've been on a fitness kick the past year and spend my mornings (six days a week before work) at the college gym. On top of that, when it's warm, I bike commute to get some fresh air (and extra exercise). :D

I'm looking for someone just as creative and weird who maybe likes some of the same things but is just different enough that we keep each other on our toes (but can still relax together, too). Do you fit that playbill?
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in public radio and spend my free time gaming and writing and acting (the latter of which is VERY new, but fun).

It's nifty just trying something new to expand my horizons. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...writing. I think. They say you're your own worst critic and I both love and hate to read my drafts. Still, I think I'm pretty damn good.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My long hair and beard~
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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What is there to say? I'm a big fan of literature and music.

Books-wise, when I'm reading for pleasure it's mainly fantasy/sci-fi or manga. My current favorite book is too hard to decide, but probably high on the list is Laughable Loves by Milan Kundera (which makes me sad) right next to The Sandman series by Neil Gaiman. Ready Player One pretty much explains the inner workings of my brain. My guilty pleasure books are The Dresden Files.

For music, primarily jazz for work (bebop mainly... I can't abide 80's synth-jazz) and industrial/techno for fun. If I were to name a favorite band, I'd have to say NIN... a close second and third would be Daft Punk and Gorillaz.

Favorite movie? Millenium Actress by Satoshi Kon (R.I.P.). Super 8 is a close second, almost tying with it. I'm a huge fan of MST3k and Rifftrax. Most nights I fall asleep to a random assortment of their takes on educational shorts from the 50's, 60's, and 70's. The majority of my collection are old fashioned transfers, but I'm trying to collect the box sets as they come out.

If you like anime at all, I heartily recommend a show called Hyouka. Last I checked, it wasn't out in America yet, but it's well worth the effort of tracking down.

Did I mention I love Sadie's Salsa? I hear there's a new Sadie's at a casino in Bernalillo. Would that they would come farther north. My guilty pleasure food is Chick-fil-a. I hate their politics, but LOVE their chicken. Also, Skyline Chili. It's a miracle they haven't migrated outside of the Cincy area or I would be a whale.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Manga, Reddit, the world of fiction, a casual dress code, good music and... well, cheesily enough... hope.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. by the ocean.

I live in the desert, but long for the sea... hoping some day to live in a small cottage (with enough room for all my books) on the central or northern coast. I don't how long it will take to get there or if my need for it will wither when I do, but I hope it comes soon.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends on what week it is... I help the local college run video game tourneys most friday nights, with the occasional movie thrown in for good measure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wrote terrible poetry in high school math on the blackboard... it started randomly, but then kept going in order to impress a girl in another class. Ah, youth~
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. like books, movies, anime/manga, games.

I especially dig folks who have passion for the arts. :)