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36 / F / Bisexual / Single
New York, NY
- Last Online
- Yesterday – 5:39am
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Judaism, but not too serious about it
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently)
Grizzly Bear, Magnetic Fields, the Mountain Goats, The Decemberists, Le Tigre, motown, Team Dresch, Joni Mitchell, Nina Simone, Nas, Neutral Milk Hotel, Joanna Newsom, Velvet Underground.
Angels in America, Grosse Point Blank, Rachel Getting Married, Milk, Capturing the Friedmans, All Over Me. Season 1 of The Wire was completely captivating but season 4 broke my heart.
Art that meets the Bechdel standard
The occasional moment of total calm
My closest friends
The ability to spend time both in cities and in nature
If you're a cis guy, you should know that being immersed in queer culture from age 14 or 15 to the present has shaped me a lot. At this point I date men most frequently, but they tend to be very open-minded about gender and sexuality, even the 100 percent straight ones.
If you're a cis-girl: I have the least experience with you all. I have fallen deeply deeply in love with a few of you but you'll likely have to pursue me as I have less game in your case.
Trans/genderqueer people of all stripes: I'm no a newbie when it comes to trans issues or dating, and I have your back. If I seem like your type, proceed gaily forward.
Basically, I'm a sorta-queer girl who wants a more or less monogamous life partner, with kids either biological, foster or adopted. I'm not interested in couples, although no hate, I am sure most of you are lovely.
Most of the messages I get on this profile are from smart, attractive, free-thinking people who say "if you weren't monogamous....", "if you didn't want kids......" And I write back, "Yeah, it's too bad, you seem awesome". It's inconvenient, but then I also love being sort of a hybrid in that way. Most of my friends have their feet in different worlds (ethnically, religiously, professionally) and we learn a lot from each other. Maybe you straddle some contradictions too?
- Guys and girls who like bi girls
- Ages 30–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
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