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momentess

27 / F / straight / Single

Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Catholicism and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am complicated, confident, and sleepy.

My Self-Summary

I'm as complicated as you are. I always see the good in people before the bad, and hope that you do the same. I have bad habits but more good ones. I'm sarcastic and naive with a relaxed attitude. I love to laugh and sing and try to do both as much as possible. I'm jaded but hopeful. I'm a daydreamer and a believer. Positive more often then negative. I think a good hug can save the world. I don't like to be wrong but can admit when I am. I make mistakes, sometimes big ones, but I always learn from them. I won't waste your time so don't waste mine.

I wrote this after smoking a joint. Take from that what you will, haha.

What I’m doing with my life

My entire life? A whole lot. I'm working to live, I'm enjoying my time when I'm not at work, I'm looking for my future, I'm dreaming, I'm making friends - GOOD friends, I'm being selfish while I still can, I'm trying not to spend too much time on my computer, I'm waiting for lunch.

I’m really good at

Making people feel comfortable, singing, listening, my job, writing, taking photos, laughing at myself, and other things you'll have to find out for yourself...

The first things people usually notice about me

My curly hair and hopefully my blue eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Catcher in the Rye, In the Skin of a Lion, A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius, The Edible Woman, so many more...

Rebel without a Cause, Garden State, Moulin Rouge, Brokeback Mountain.

Bob Dylan, Sarah Slean, Marvin Gaye, Coldplay, and everything else. Too hard to choose favorites.

The six things I could never do without

Words, company, laughter, music, sex, being outside.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The potential of my future. This is problematic for me because I really try to live in the moment but I'm such a dreamer that I often find myself living in anticipation of moments rather than in the moments themselves.

On a typical Friday night I am

Sharing drinks, laughter and hopefully more with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I chipped my front tooth two separate times this year; both times while eating a salad.

You should message me if

You should message me if you're a genuine person looking to chat with the same.

As an aside, I'm impressed with people who can make polyamorous relationships work. I am not, however, looking to become someone's second or third.