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44 Brooklyn, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 20
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Average build
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Loving the summer, enjoying dating & feeling optimistic about the future. I am a friendly, honest, passionate person & am apparently way more hilarious than I realize. I have great friends & enjoy my career but would love to explore the world with that someone special.

Originally from Australia, grew up as an expat in Asia & have been working in NYC as a Producer for many years. I am well traveled, inquisitive and have an adventurous streak, though it’s been a long time since I jumped out of an airplane. I like hanging out with good people. Drinking & eating usually. Also playing tennis, biking, kayaking, scrabble, crossword puzzles, music, walking around NYC & tripping upstate on the weekends.

I’m attracted to men who are strong-minded but caring and considerate. Career-minded yet make an effort to have fun and be spontaneous. I want a man who appreciates my mind, desires me, a man who wants to be in a relationship but respects my independence. Not too difficult, right?

I’ve been told I’m funny, interesting, opinionated, a good listener, have sexy legs & smooth skin. I'm a contradiction of sorts. I eat healthy but like a few drinks. Am feminine but enjoy hiking & camping. Am affectionate & open-minded but loyal. Am theatrical but not a drama queen. People tell me a need a dynamic person, like myself.

I appreciate a man who is social, sexy, clever, has good manners and above all, a good heart. A balance of both the mental and physical. Someone who has a similar NYC lifestyle & outlook for the future, as me.

Let's meet up!
What I’m doing with my life
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Avoiding decorating my apartment & training my puppy. He's adorable!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Attracting good friends, living in the moment, thinking on my feet, being organized & giving advice (apparently) when asked...
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I look better with a tan? That I like to giggle? I'm not sure really...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I studied film & TV so have seen a lot of movies. My list of 100 favorite films got to 138! So I stopped counting. I like indies, documentaries & blockbusters depending on my mood. Love Sci-Fi. Enjoyed Ex Macina recently. Always try to catch up on my Australian films when I can.

Was a voracious reader when I was a kid & have been making an effort to read more lately. Just finished The Orphan Master's Son and it was incredible! Now reading the Other End of the Leash, as I have a new dog. Apparently I am the one who needs training... I gravitate towards Pulitzer & Booker Prize winners as the writing is usually top-notch. Love trashy, pop-culture magazines too however.

Music: Electronic, Drum & Bass, Rock, Blues, Disco

Shows: Changes depending on the season. The Whispers, Extant, Masterpiece Mystery, CSI, Criminal Minds, Battlestar Gallactica, Homeland, Mad Men, Broad City, The Office, Antiques Roadshow, Survivor, Top Chef

Food: Savory foods. Chinese. Greek. Mexican. Japanese. French. Cheese, olives & charcuterie.... I'm a pretty healthy eater though I do love pizza. Are Bloody Mary's a food?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wine & Cheese
Pillow & Earplugs
ooops, that's 7
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I get contacted by really young men and really old men but rarely people my own age…. Would really like to date someone who is close to my age and has a similar lifestyle to me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With friends. Having dinner or drinks or watching a movie at home. I don't party as much as I used to, though I did party last weekend…
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get vertigo even though I've parachuted out of an airplane
You should message me if
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You are looking for your soulmate & not just a hookup