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44 Brooklyn, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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Yesterday – 7:22pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from two-year college
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Alright gorgeous, where are you? I am a friendly, honest, passionate person & am apparently way more hilarious than I realize. I have great friends & enjoy my career but would like to meet that special someone.

Originally from Australia, lived in Asia and have been in NYC for many years. I am well traveled, inquisitive and have an adventurous streak though it’s been a long time since I jumped out of an airplane. I like playing tennis, biking, kayaking, scrabble, crossword puzzles, music, walking around NYC & tripping upstate on the weekends.

I’m attracted to men who are strong-minded but caring and considerate. Career-minded yet make an effort to have fun and be spontaneous. I want a man who appreciates my mind, desires me, a man who wants to be in a relationship but respects my independence. Not too difficult, right?

I’ve been told I’m funny, interesting, opinionated, a good listener, have sexy legs & smooth skin. I'm a contradiction of sorts. I eat healthy but like a few drinks. Am feminine but enjoy hiking & camping. Am affectionate & open-minded but loyal. Am theatrical but not a drama queen. People tell me a need a dynamic person, like myself.

I appreciate a man who is social, sexy, clever, has good manners and above all, a good heart. A balance of both the mental and physical. Someone who has a similar NYC lifestyle & outlook for the future, as me.

Let's meet up!
What I’m doing with my life
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Working hard but managing to go to dinner parties & play tennis. Decorating my new apartment & planning my next holiday.
I’m really good at
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Telling stories, being organized, being a good friend and host, and most things I put my mind too…
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I can't wait for winter to be over
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I studied film & TV so have seen a lot. Had a list of my favorite 100 films but it got to 138 so now I just enjoy. I like both indies and blockbusters depending on my mood. Loved Wolf of Wall Street & Blue Jasmine. Enjoy Sci-Fis like Her, The Moon, ink, The Lives of Others.

I was a voracious reader when I was a kid so am trying to read more again. Recently read Ender's Game, The Sense of an Ending, Invitation to a Beheading, The Hunger Games, The Art Forger & Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius. Love Dostoyevsky. Like trashy mags. I think reading Pulitzer & Booker Prize books is always a good place to start.

Music: Electronic, Drum & Bass, Rock, Blues, Disco

Shows: Battlestar Gallactica, Homeland, Masterpiece Mystery, CSI, Mad Men, The Office, Survivor, Top Chef (a group of us meet & cook often)

Food: Savoury foods. Chinese. Greek. Mexican. Japanese. Cheese, olives & charcuterie.... I'm a pretty healthy eater though I do love pizza.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wine & Cheese
Pillow & Earplugs
ooops, that's 7
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I get contacted by really young men and really old men but rarely people my own age…. Would really like to date someone who is in a similar place and has a similar lifestyle to me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wiith friends having dinner or drinks or watching a movie at home. I don't party as much I used to though I did party last weekend…
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get vertigo even though i've parachuted out of an airplane
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