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monique_foryou

44 Brooklyn, NY Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Alright gorgeous, where are you? I am a friendly, honest, passionate person & am apparently way more hilarious than I realize. I have great friends & enjoy my career but would like to meet that special someone.

Originally from Australia, lived in Asia and have been in NYC for many years. I am well traveled, inquisitive and have an adventurous streak though it’s been a long time since I jumped out of an airplane. I like playing tennis, biking, kayaking, scrabble, crossword puzzles, music, walking around NYC & tripping upstate on the weekends.

I’m attracted to men who are strong-minded but caring and considerate. Career-minded yet make an effort to have fun and be spontaneous. I want a man who appreciates my mind, desires me, a man who wants to be in a relationship but respects my independence. Not too difficult, right?

I’ve been told I’m funny, interesting, opinionated, a good listener, have sexy legs & smooth skin. I'm a contradiction of sorts. I eat healthy but like a few drinks. Am feminine but enjoy hiking & camping. Am affectionate & open-minded but loyal. Am theatrical but not a drama queen. People tell me a need a dynamic person, like myself.

I appreciate a man who is social, sexy, clever, has good manners and above all, a good heart. A balance of both the mental and physical. Someone who has a similar NYC lifestyle & outlook for the future, as me.

Let's meet up!
What I’m doing with my life
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Decorating my new apartment & playing with my new puppy. He's adorable
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Telling stories, being organized, being a good friend and host, and most things I put my mind too…
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I can't wait for winter to be over
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I studied film & TV so have seen a lot. My list of 100 favorite films got to 138! So… I like both indies and blockbusters depending on my mood. Saw Oldboy last week. Dark. Last Sci-Fi I saw was Guardians of the Galaxy. Loved. but not as funny as it could have been. It's awards season and I need to catch up on the latest and greatest.

I was a voracious reader when I was a kid, so am trying to read more again. Was gifted a Kindle on my last holiday. Don't know how I feel about that… Recently read Ender's Game, The Sense of an Ending, Invitation to a Beheading, The Hunger Games, The Art Forger & Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius. Love Dostoyevsky. I think reading Pulitzer & Booker Prize books is always a good place to start. Love trashy, pop-culture mags too

Music: Electronic, Drum & Bass, Rock, Blues, Disco

Shows: Masterpiece Mystery, CSI, Criminal Minds, Battlestar Gallactica, Homeland, Mad Men, Broad City, The Office, Antiques Roadshow, Survivor, Top Chef

Food: Savory foods. Chinese. Greek. Mexican. Japanese. French. Cheese, olives & charcuterie.... I'm a pretty healthy eater though I do love pizza. Are Bloody Mary's a food?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Passion
Friends
Travel
Wine & Cheese
Pillow & Earplugs
ooops, that's 7
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I get contacted by really young men and really old men but rarely people my own age…. Would really like to date someone who is in a similar place in life and has a similar lifestyle to me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wiith friends having dinner or drinks or watching a movie at home. I don't party as much I used to though I did party last weekend…
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get vertigo even though i've parachuted out of an airplane
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