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monique_foryou

43 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 36–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 17
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Alright gorgeous, where are you? I am a friendly, honest, passionate person & am apparently way more hilarious than I realize. I have great friends & enjoy my career but would like to meet that special someone.

Originally from Australia, lived in Asia and have been in NYC for many years. I am well traveled, inquisitive and have an adventurous streak though it’s been a long time since I jumped out of an airplane. I also like playing tennis, biking, kayaking, scrabble, crossword puzzles, music, walking around NYC & going away for the weekend.

I’ve been told I’m funny, interesting, opinionated, a good listener, have sexy legs & smooth skin. A contradiction of sorts. I eat healthy but like a few drinks. Am feminine but like to go hiking & camping. Am affectionate & open-minded but loyal. Am theatrical but not a drama queen. People tell me a need a dynamic person, like myself.

I’m attracted to men who are strong-minded but caring and considerate. Career-minded yet make an effort to have fun and be spontaneous. I want a man who appreciates my mind, desires me, a man who wants to be in a relationship but respects my independence. Not too difficult, right?

I appreciate a man who is social, sexy, clever, has good manners and above all, a good heart. A balance of both the mental and physical. Someone who has a similar NYC lifestyle & outlook for the future, as me.

Let's meet up!
What I’m doing with my life
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Working hard but managing to go to dinner parties & play tennis. Planning my trip to India and looking forward to summer time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Telling stories, being a good friend, being the hostess with the mostess and most things I put my mind too...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I can't wait for winter to be over
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I studied film & TV so have seen a lot. Had a list of my favorite 100 films but it got to 138 so now I just enjoy. I like both indies and blockbusters depending on my mood. Loved Wolf of Wall Street & Blue Jasmine. Enjoy Sci-Fis like Europa Report, The Moon, ink, indie German film The Lives of Others. Recently enjoyed Her.

I was a voracious reader when I was a kid so am trying to read more again. Recently read The Atlantis Gene, A Visit From The Goon Squad, The Sense of an Ending, Invitation to a Beheading, The Hunger Games, The Art Forger & Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius. Love Dostoyevsky. Like trashy mags. I think reading Pulitzer Prize books is always a good place to start.

Music: Electronic, Drum & Bass, Rock, Blues, Disco

Shows: Battlestar Gallactica, Homeland, Masterpiece Mystery, CSI, Mad Men, The Office, Survivor, Top Chef (a group of us meet & cook)

Food: Savoury foods. Chinese. Greek. Mexican. Japanese. Cheese, olives & charcuterie.... I'm a pretty healthy eater though I do love pizza.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Passion
Friends
Travel
Wine & Cheese
Pillow & Earplugs
ooops, that's 7
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I get contacted by 20 year olds and 60 year olds but never 40 year olds.... Would really like to date someone around my own age.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wiith friends having dinner or drinks or watching a movie at home. I don't party as much I used to though I did party last weekend…
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get vertigo even though i've parachuted out of an airplane
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