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35 M Brooklyn, NY

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am: Blunt, perceptive, intellectually curious, occasionally dandyish, hard-working, and a little vain. Driven by culture, politics, ideas, experiences. Love a good conversation, especially over drinks after the movie or the play or the opening. I'll do karaoke at the drop of a hat.
What I’m doing with my life
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I do tech, and I write. I like both, so I consider myself fortunate when it comes to work and self-actualization and all that. Most of my career kvetching is behind me, thank God. (It was a little boring.)

Staying open to New York and all its charms. Looking for the next experience to absorb and be changed by. Ending sentence fragments with prepositions, apparently.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hm, maybe that I'm tall for an Asian guy? I've also been told occasionally that I have a nice speaking voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Darren Aronofsky, Michael Clayton, Mulholland Dr, The Fountain, Kill List. Recently loved Enough Said and Nebraska.

Books: The Flame Alphabet, Housekeeping, The Satanic Verses, About a Boy, American Psycho, Alan Moore's Swamp Thing run.

Music: Adele, James Blake, Sleater-Kinney, Pulp, Frank Ocean, Active Child. Animals as Leaders, even though all my metalhead friends seem to think they're wanky prog shit. I've seen Prince play at Paisley Park, and I've been in the mosh pit at Lightning Bolt shows.

TV: The standard set of high-end cable shows (Breaking Bad, Mad Men, yadda yadda). Archer. It's kind of freaking me out how few people are watching Treme. And I'm going to watch every last episode of Community, no matter how much it hurts me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether I'm subscribed to too many magazines. The limits and the strengths of genre expectations. SXSW torrents. Making fun of the social media that I use anyway. My family. Mexican drug cartels. My overhyped and ridiculous but still-beloved neighborhood. Organizational processes. Spider webs. Taco trucks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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One day, I'll be the singer in a wedding band that does R&B and soul songs, and my life will be complete.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating