First, and most importantly (with respect to okc), I'm polyamorous. I'm married, and I date, and my partner does as well. There are many ways to go about polyamory. The sort of poly that I find satisfying is to be involved with my partners' partners socially (and sometimes romantically, though not normally). I love to be friends with my metamours, as does my wife. I'm actively working to help build a great community of local nerdy poly folk called the nspp. I'm interested in real, meaningful relationships. While I date to discover those connections, I've also found many non-romantic friends along the way. They tend to be the best ones, so don't be shy :)
I'm an unrepentant geek. To me, this means being exuberant about science and skepticism, delving deep into topics I find interesting. The exuberance is the key- I believe a person can be geeky about all kinds of stuff - cooking, coffee, computers, cars, whatever - I enjoy the company of people who are excited about their geekery, and love to share their knowledge with others.
That said, Architecture is my first love and day job. I'm unendingly fascinated with spacial and graphic design, and get chills when entering a great work of architecture. In fact, I find it impossible to NOT share with whoever is within earshot what makes my brain go vroom. On a good day I'm extremely excitable, and on a bad day, I'm thoughtful and contemplative. If you walk down the street with me, you're just as likely to hear me get all hot and bothered about a well executed detail on a building as you are to hear me going on about the Drake equation ( http://xkcd.com/384/).
I enjoy the outdoors. I love to hike/camp/etc, but have done way too little of it since moving to Seattle a few years back. If you are the type of woman who's ok with unshaven parts and a non-made-up face for days on end, we'd probably get along nicely.
Who are you:
I'm looking for women who are poly, or at the very least poly-curious. I'm interested in open communicators in terms of both interests and emotions. Science nerds get bonus points. I'm looking for active, intelligent women who have a direction in life, and are excited to share it with others.